Date women from United States / California / Encinitas, 49 year old

Date someone special from Encinitas, United States. I am fun loving, easy going, active and try to have NO drama in my life. I like to workout, LOVE live music, a cozy night in or a steak dinner out (I'm not a salad eating girl all the time). My job takes me out of town every other week for a few days. I do marketing for a busy spine surgeon with multiple offices. I have 2 great kids that are almost totally self sufficient...Hallelujah !!!
I try to live by the 3 C's of Life:
Choices, Chances, Changes...You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.
I like to play social director - I keep up with what's going on in SD and like to plan trips (my friends love this about me)
I'm looking for the one who makes my heart smile,
Someone who is active, likes to have fun, easy going, positive attitude, good work ethic, NO drama, wants to travel and enjoy life. The best is yet to come and I would love to find someone to share the back 9 with...and I don't mean golf !!!

Meet a soulmate from Encinitas, United States. Of course, Chemistry is king and perception is everything.
I'm not sure any of us here are perceived by others like we see ourselves... or that we see ourselves as we really are, LoL. and Chemistry, well, I'm a firm believer in the fact that sometimes it sneaks up on you...
I don't think there is one adjective left for me to describe myself that hasn't been used here a hundred times before.... We all say the same things.
I'm looking for someone to have a great summer with... and hopefully a great lifetime with....
My pictures are current and I would be happy to send you more. I'm not into misrepresenting myself or people who are...
UpDATe!!
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Hey there... :)
My membership timed out so I figured it was a good time to take a time out myself. This site didn't really work out for me the way I wanted it to anyway.... Not giving up though ;)
Good luck to everyone.
:)

Date a woman from Encinitas, United States. Wasn't it Forrest Gumps mom that said,
"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get?"
So maybe change isn't such a bad thing after all, since it's a law of nature.
I think most people don't like change, and that's why we all make the same mistakes
over and over again,each time expecting something different. Isn't that also the definition of
insanity? Aren't we all a little? and some more, especially here maybe?
I won't say another word..
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Meet someone special from California, United States. Full of life, fit, spontaneous, caring and fun, those are the most common words used to describe me when I polled my friends and family. So, I have to explain my online “name” and tag line. I absolutely love life! I am incredibly happy, energetic and active including kickboxing and soccer... and I reallly can catch a football! In addition, my daily routine includes one or more of the following activities: boxing, spinning, Pilates, running, or tennis. I also play once a week on a coed soccer team with my daughter, son-in-law and their friends (also my friends!) I never played in school and we never practice; so while it is just a recreational league…6 seasons later and 4 goals scored (by me!) we are still having a great time. BTW after my first goal you would have thought I made the final point of a World Cup with all our antics on the field, yes, my teammates are awesome, competitive and fun! Each week my daughter calls out “go Mom!” even though the referee jokingly tells her it’s inappropriate to call me Mom on the field. lol Oh and I can throw a spiral and like to run routes too. :-). I also love getting dressed up and am definitely a girly girl as well!
While I love being active, what I value most in life are my family, friends and leading a spiritually based life. I love cultivating genuine relationships and am fortunate to have two caring beautiful daughters who are married to good men. We have a wonderful family dynamic of love, friendship, respect and independence. I live a healthy lifestyle and look at each day as an opportunity to learn, grow and experience life with a sense of playfulness, adventure, responsibility and passion. I find that direct communicaton works best with those who are willing to do the same in return.
What I'm looking for...you are passionate and opinionated yet kind hearted, you are strong willed yet compassionate and flexible. You are active, have a zest for life, a sense of adventure and embrace life with exuberance including friends, family, travel, hobbies etc. Your are grounded in your faith yet open to learn. You are young at heart with soulful maturity. You have a full and successful life but desire love with someone who makes you smile (ok.. really I mean laugh as humor has to "match" too!) ..even during an argument; and finally.. who you have that undeniable "connection", chemistry and attraction with that makes you want to share your life with her and be a part of hers as lifelong partners. A tall order I know :-) but I look to mirror that image. I'm not looking for perfect, I'm looking for the right "fit" :-)
My friends would say that I have a natural gift to build warm and personal relatonships. I live life authentically and heartfelt which comes through in my interactions with people. I believe in living a joyful, appreciative life and genuinely share this happiness with others. My personality is an interesting juxtaposition of fun loving athlete to accomplished businesswoman who on any given day can be found running on the beach (afterwards eating a frozen yogurt!) and then shifting gears deploying complex software projects for a large organization. I enjoy life wholeheartedly everyday whether it's a rough stressful day or the simplest of relaxing days. I enjoy trying new things and finding the humor in both the sucesses and misses in life.
One last important fact...I'm not 49, I'm 52. All of my pictures are within the last year or even a month ago in Hawaii. Based on my lifestyle, interests and energy, I felt that I needed to lower my age in order to gain exposure to more potential matches. Statistics, social acceptance and media have finally outweighed my hesitation and wish to find love more serendipitously so I'm giving this a try. However, I'm holding fast to my belief that a connection, love and ultimately a lasting relationship is amazing no matter how it shows up and it's worth the time and effort to try to find it!

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am attractive and fit, fiesty, energetic and have a youthful attitude.Exercise is an important part of my life and try to do something everyday. I believe a relationship is based on mutual respect and you should be each others biggest fan and supporter. I am independent, fun loving, and social. Life is short and all that really matters is the love and relationships you have. Everything is sweeter with someone special to share it with.
You are fit and attractive, young at heart and not set in your ways. You have a sense of adventure and like to get out and explore. You are intelligent, loving and compassionate, creative and communicative. You should have a very kind heart, sweet soul and loving respect for women. You appreciate the arts and have a sense of humor and adventure, I really appreciate a man that is well groomed with a sense of style. You are well established in your life but still appreciate the simple things.
It all comes down to chemistry.....lets talk

Meet a woman from California, United States. Quick note about pics, they're all recent, just like to style my hair differently.
I believe life is what we make of it. My life is full and I'm very grateful for everything and everyone in it, but there is plenty of room for a special man.
I have 2 adult kids who live on their own and are my best friends.
I'm not a judgmental person. I know we've all lived different lives and learned (hopefully) different lessons from our experiences.
I love intellectual and engaging conversations, but my opinion, view, philosophy is no more important than anyone else's.
I'm friendly, polite, direct, humorous, intelligent, trusting, honest, dependable, respectful and optimistic.
I'm active and enjoy, tennis, walk/running, golf (or the resemblance there of), museums, the performing arts, movies, dinners out, great conversation and just about anything else you might suggest we do.
I don't have any deep unresolved personal issues (I guess if I had them I wouldn't know it anyway;-) AND I don't hold onto any preconceived notions of how a relationship should evolve. I try not to look for so called "red flags" or use past relationships to predict people's motives. Honesty and openness are very important to me.
I'm looking for a loving, respectful, fun and committed relationship. I want someone to hang out with. I'm a loving, affectionate and generous woman who hopes there is a man out there who values and embraces those characteristics (and likes my photos).
The man I'd like to spend my time with shares the same views of life. He's a positive person who takes care of himself and cares for people around him.
If you are interested in getting to know me please send me a short email because winks don't give me much information.
I've decided that I need to be a bit more helpful to those who would like to know me better.
We would probably NOT be a good match if:
- You've ever considered wearing a foil hat.
- You can't talk about your ex w/o cussing or crying.
- You believe your alcohol induced slur is charming.
- Your heyday stories start with the words "When I was in high school..."
- That a good conversation is one in which you have come out on top.
- That you think action movies are improved by adding a love interest.

Date someone special from United States. I love spending time with my two kids, family and friends. Prefer the outdoors and cooking in to always going out. But I still clean up nicely for the occassional nice dinner out. I love running with my two german shepherds, love gardening and cooklng. Love just relaxing at home with a good book or movie.
Am looking for an easy going, "real" person who shares my interests and perhaps can introduce me to new ones.
I have two kids still at home that I share 50/50 custody with.

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm confident, athletic, successful, spiritual, well read, opinionated, and feel much younger than my biological age--I can outlast any 17-year-old on the tennis court!
I like to converse about a variety of different topics and joke around a lot. I love animals. ...and I seek the same in a man: tall, handsome, creative, athletic, very confident, compassionate, scrupulously honest in all ways. No flag-wavers or political/social conservatives need apply. I'm spiritual and definitely believe in being positive and taking the high road in all situations.I've always been with very confident, liberal, affectionate, highly intelligent men who have a good sense of self and treat people of all ethnic, religious, and socioeconomic groups with respect (and who make me laugh).
You're someone who might have hesitated about doing this because you think you shouldn't have to. I understand completely, but...people don't seem to meet each other in the supermarket as much as they used to, so here we are.... (please, no winks...if you're interested, send a message)
One more thing...if you're allergic to cats...sorry, but this won't work!

Date a woman from United States. Here's a little bit about me: I was raised in Los Angeles. Come from a great family. A bit crazy but GREAT. I love music, dancing, and the theater. But most of all I love to laugh! I am giving Match . Com a try with the hope that I will meet someone nice.
Here is some more back round: I have a 17 year old son and a 23 year old daughter (who now lives in Chicago). I volunteer for my son's High Schoo Football team and when he's playing I like to embarrass him by shaking an obnoxious noisemaker ( I've used the same kind since he was 6. He asks for every year; privately). I quite often cheer as loud as I possibly can. I did the same for my daughter when she was in school!
My daughter and I love comedy. In fact we tend to get a little hysterical (stupid) around each other. She is in Chicago to persue her funny girl dreams! She studies and works with a group called Second City!
I am hoping to meet someone who is like I hope that I am, easy-going and fun to be around. The person that I'd like to meet is successful and stable in their career, and finds happiness with their work! He is easy going about life and treats ALL people polite and with respect. Chivalry is not a thing of the past with this man! I love to keep a beautiful and happy home. It is important for me to meet someone who feels the same way. I have raised two good kids, now I need to take time for me.
A couple of years ago I had the opportunitity to move pretty close to the beach. I love it. Walking in or around my neighborhood is something that makes me happy.. It is great to be able go down to the beach and just hang out. It's always a fun place to find cool, unique restaurants and dive bars down here! I also really like to go antique shopping but not always at antique shops! Getting together with friends where ever and when ever is also something that I love to do.. And with time I've learned that sometimes doing NOTHING at all can be a fantastic thing!!
Please feel free to write if anything in my profile intrigues you. I would love to hear from you. Learn more about you.
I am ready to meet someone. I'm hope to find someone who feels the same way.