Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am active and pretty adventurous . I enjoy learning and experiencing new things. I am looking for that special someone to enjoy the simple things; the beach, entertaining, traveling, movies, sunsets, the desert, snow skiing, river rafting , live music, etc. I will retire in five years and I plan on enjoying the journey that gets me there. I love where I live, but I am open to a different lifestyle- maybe a foreign country? There is a whole big world out there and I want to experience it! I am easy going and flexible. I don't want someone to "run my show", nor do I want to "run someone else's show". I want a partnership. I don't want someone to change their life for me but introduce me to some of their interests, and I will try to do the same. I am looking for someone with a good sense of humor, optimistic, responsible and pretty happy go lucky! I don't hold grudges and I believe you are only hurting yourself when you do. I don't sweat the small stuff and don't sweat the things that are not in my power to change. Every day is a new day for a happy ending!