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Date a man from San Rafael, United States. Easy going long haired sort with strong ties to the values & music of the 60s but with his feet firmly planted seeks an open, understanding woman who can laugh at lifes ubsurdities & who would enjoy meting an esoteric, warm, friendly fellow kindred spirit to walk together on the path of life

Meet people from San Rafael, United States. Articulate, Constitutional originalist, organic patriot might be just shades of one facet of how I see myself. A sort of Renaissance man whose interests are more attuned to the sublime, yet edgy at times. Risk taker with daily habits that are energetic, nurturing, comforting, considerate and kind. I love my country with all the peccadilloes that come with a free society. I love my friends and my 22 y/o daughter with loyalty that knows no bounds. A quintessential civilian sheepdog, happily ensuring the safety of those close to me. Woe be it to the wolves that would harm us. Warm hearted, easy laugh, soft eyes.
I cherish the outdoors and all the joys, challenges that come with it. Not afraid to get a little wet, muddy or cold. I was a forest fire fighter early on. Still easy on the eyes and soul. I prefer casual over formal, substance over style. Clean up wonderfully for urban blending, however!
I like who I am and who I’m evolving into.
My travels have led to the foot of the Himalayas, both slopes of the Rockies. Spent intimate time on Oahu in a two story tree house I built in a Banyan tree (overlooking Molakai, on a clear day).
Love the night sky in Texas. The Ventana and Ishi Wilderness areas are great places for silence and introspection.
My friends tell me I should say I’m an Artist. (hmmm). Just like to have fun with it. Don’t like pretentious types, just like expressing myself through paper and pencil or charcoal. Finally stretching myself towards chalk, though still new to the medium (I know~! After all this time~!). M. C. Escher is a friend. Heronymus Bosch would be an interesting neighbor. But, they wouldn’t hold a candle to me in the kitchen. Mad skills!
You MUST love chocolate or we won't happen. If there was a way to certify chocolate compliance, believe me when I say I would ask for it up front. At my table, if you are liberally minded, you'd feel warm, secure and in good company. Your point of view would be genuinely respected. If conservative, you'd find safe harbor to thrive. I truly employ the First Amendment.
The Golden Rule rocks. Sanity and serenity are more important than any one POV. Time and the heart are the most precious commodities, to be nurtured with utmost care. Never had an affair. Were times when I bit my fisted knuckles. It's a challenge being human. Many fail the true tests of chivalry.
Am very proud to be one of the four cofounders of Rainbow Grocery in SF. I can make wood sing! Have had finish trim carpentry skills for more than two decades. Had the great privilege of remodeling Linda Ronstadt’s kitchen (overlooking Golden Gate), Jerry Garcia’s home (back in the day). Not prideful, just sayin’. Somebody’s gotta do it, right? They were kind to me and let me have free reign to express my talents within bounds.
Not afraid of the occasional public display of affection, when appropriate (usually spontaneous). I adore embraces that can leave one breathless and a little light headed. I thrive on touch. You? I believe in the notion that four hugs a day promote enriched growth of the Human Spirit. N’est-ce pas?

Date someone special from San Rafael, United States. 2012 has been a banner year, personally and professionally… and it’s not over yet! I have made some long needed changes and am once again taking charge of my life. I have a lot to be thankful for: loving family, good friends and inspiring work, all of which keep me grounded and focused on the important things in life.
What am I most proud of? That would be my 24-year-old son. Three years ago I, like a lot of parents, was wondering when he would “get it.” His childhood years (teens especially) were not the easiest, for him or for me. I was, in effect, a single parent for most of that time. Then something clicked and I got the best call a parent could get! My son called to say he was going back to school. Set on sound engineering, he soon discovered that he had a head for mathematics. Next year, he will be transferring (with honors) to UCLA, majoring in aerospace engineering! Not bad, huh?
I am undergoing some professional changes too. I worked for years in the film industry (production and financing). After moving back to the Bay Area in the early 90s I took a job with a national political campaign. That led to a career change of sorts, organizing fundraising events for non-profit organizations along with a lot of community activities, many of which were volunteer efforts. The past ten years, however, have been nuts and bolts. A startup venture I co-founded (satellite television network) dissolved after 9/11 so I moved into sales and marketing. It has paid the bills but is a far cry from the inspiring work I’d done previously. Which brings me back to 2012. I am writing again and I have a new momentum that is lighting up my life with infinite possibilities.
What’s missing is a friend and partner -- a good woman not just to spend time with doing things we both enjoy doing, but someone who loves traveling, in mind and body. A friend suggested I check out Match.com. I haven't come to any conclusions yet but I am willing to give it the old college try.
Who am I looking for? Like many of you have said in your profiles, honesty is a very big thing. Integrity, and strong morals and values are others. You are a confident woman who doesn’t feel the need to judge anyone without walking a mile in his or her shoes. Politically, left, right or somewhere in the middle, you vote your conscience, never following party lines just because. You recognize that we as a society have become polarized -- permissive on one hand, intolerant on the other. There's more to your life, however, than politics and activism. The word “staunch” does not describe you. You view life as a gift and temper every aspect. You are not a couch potato nor are you in a constant state of motion, never stopping to smell the roses. I am looking for a woman comfortable in her skin; someone who desires equality in a relationship, has no control issues and doesn’t play games. For starters, I'm hoping to find a woman to spend some time with. I guess I'm old-fashioned, wanting nature to take it’s own course. This site is just another way to meet someone. Since I don’t do Facebook (haven’t found a reason), I’m not interested in spending weeks emailing, IMing, etc. back and forth. If you're interested, let’s have some conversation like people do in the real world.
I look forward to hearing from you.

Meet men and women from San Rafael, United States. I guy who can listen WOW I guy who can love show affection and hang out watch a movie on a night in or head out on the town or spontanious day out up the coast or into the city. Art, garden play Restaurant or picnic at the beach or under the stars oh and picnics in the living room are ok to. Have friends over to wine and dine and see what latest recipes we can
come up with as we cook together after picking up the freshest ingredients at our local farmers market, entertian together. Loving; giving, romantic
Will hike to the top of the mountain with you and even rub your feet after or even rub your feet after along day at work

Date single man from San Rafael, United States. Hi there, and thanks for checking my profile. As the headline suggests I'm looking for a lifetime partnership with a mature, attractive woman who knows who she is, and is comfortable being with someone who knows who he is.
Am seeking a relationship -- not a fling or "just hanging out." If you're truly looking for the same, feel free to send an e-mail.
You'll find me an open, flexible and approachable guy, yet with strong opinions on just about everything. Am a confident, self-employed business owner who's lived in Marin for 21 years. I've found little time to "date" and am trying match.com for a short trial, never thinking I'd do "computer dating." In the descriptions of "My Date" you'll note I've left open certain spaces because I'm not "wedded" to particular "types."
Looking forward to meeting someone who exists in the world of Ideas, with a well-developed internal life. Someone who agrees that "The more you know the more you know you don't know." I value a thinker who appreciates tight writing and the thought process underlying that. A good Writer who can also read between the lines is a great plus in my book.
That said, neither of us will be "bookish" intellectuals: The voice at the cocktail party challenging the prevailing wisdom, or holding one's own in a debate, will often be mine. If that describes You, even better. (I DO know when to shut up!)
We can be very social, but also enjoy 1/1 moments, even when nothing need be said.
Am widely experienced and well-rounded here, who I hope you'll find matches the definition of a gentleman. If you appreciate a well-made Martini and don't mind a partner who enjoys an (occasional) cigar, we're off to a good start.
I'm a longtime political CONSERVATIVE/libertarian (though socially moderate in some ways) who highly values a Partner with similar values and positions. (Middle of The Road is OK!) Heroes? Ronald Reagan, Margaret Thatcher, Churchill. Pro-free markets/Small govt. A self-described Liberal won't Match...sorry. (Though we'd probably have a lot of fun - for about a week:)
*NO objection to eventual MARRIAGE, or something meaningful approaching that. Been there, done both. Never had kids, but am by no means opposed to that. Would make a great dad.
Pics are current, and the stats, facts here are accurate. Why would either of us waste our time with anything else? Checked boxes here are arbitrary and only guides. In reality we know we're far more complicated, and hopefully worth getting to know.
Hope I've revealed something here more useful to you than "Enjoy long walks on the beach at Sunset!"

Meet a soulmate from San Rafael, United States. Ok so let's be honest I'm definitely not a homebody or a couch potatoe, I don't live to work I work to live but I love the work I do and wouldn't trade it for anything else out there. What I am is an outdoor person that loves to get exercise and experience life the old fashioned way, by having fun! I live a very busy life with a demanding work schedule that requires taking advantage of every chance to travel and get outside. I am an honest and open individual who is compassionate, caring, down to earth and believes in the simple things in life. Enjoying life, family, and friends comes first for me. I am looking for someone that can have fun outdoors and likes travelling on planned and spontaneous vacations even if it's just to the beach for a sunset walk or to the mountains for an overnight. Someone that can also enjoy quiet time just watching a movie at home. Someone who is just as comfortable in a suite at the Fairmont as they are in a sleeping bag on the ground in the sierra's. a person that is open and honest about themselves and not overly concerned about money and success. If money, fancy cars, and big houses are in your top 5 you're looking in the wrong neighborhood.

Date a man from California, United States. Hello there. So the photos are at least acceptable and you are taking the time to read my profile. Delightful!
To be brief, I am looking for a "best" friend and lover (in the same person, of course). Likely, the same as you. And ultimately, that compatibility will only be determined by a face to face meeting. I assume you are filtering through all these promising opportunities to decide if this man (me) is worth your time. So if you're still with me, read on:
About me: I have a broad range of interests and appreciate intelligent discussion. I like to laugh, and make others laugh. I like the outdoors. I enjoy my job, which is sales (I like the working with people), but also technical (I have a talent for most anything technical). This is probably why I approach life in a rather straightforward, methodical and logical fashion, although I do trust my emotions and intuition. My bachelors degree is in psychology and I have an MBA. Not that the degrees themselves mean much; except perhaps to indicate that I am interested in how people work, and in business, and I believe education is important, and we are always learning. I love science, and science fiction. I like to go to movies, plays, museums and concerts. I don't care for the bar scene, and drink only occasionally, but I do like music and could be coaxed on to the dance floor. And sunset walks, or a nice dinner (cooked together or at a restaurant) are nice ways to cap busy days. I am very open to new types of experiences. I have a healthy lifestyle, and spend a significant amount of time biking, running, swimming and working out. I also enjoy hiking, and, if I had the time, yoga, skiing and other sports. I have a spiritual side, as well, which I haven't nourished enough lately. I am well traveled, most recently to Germany (for a triathlon) and London (visiting my daughter, the filmmaker, who is actually making a living there. Her USC education paid off!).
An ideal match (you) is someone who can inspire and support me as much as I inspire and support you--a loving enthusiasm between us that continually energizes the relationship. Laughter is important too. And fitness/health. And, of course, a willingness to take some risks and try on new experiences. The rest is negotiable.

Meet people from California, United States. I'm happy, easy going and very low key. Friends describe me as very loyal; I still stay in touch with childhood friends, high school friends and college friends thousands of miles away. In terms of professional accomplishments I am most proud of the imploding house I created for the movie Poltergeist. I am so grateful that my 5 yr. old son is healthy and happy. I am looking for someone to talk to and hang out as friends. That way there's no pressure. If it develops into something else then so much the better.

Date someone special from California, United States. At first I thought this 'describe yourself business' was going to be an over the top anxiety attack. Then I remembered something a good friend had said to me; he "Paul, if the universe means you to be with a certain woman, nothing you can do will 'mess' it up, and if it doesn't, nothing you can do will make it happen". So, if you're her...
I'm separated and in the process of a friendly divorce; I have an 11-yo son who is the best human I know, ever, and I share custody of him. So in the last six months I am beginning anew after 13 years of marriage. In many ways that is both an exciting and a daunting proposition. Listen, don't get scared, I am not the least bit interested in discussing my ex or any associated drama on a date. That might be appropriate later if we were in a LTR of some sort.
I'm a fairly laid back independent guy who tries his best to make a positive difference in the world and create no harm while enjoying my life to the fullest. I love that I feel passionate about my work and my relationships with family and friends. Please do mistake passionate with being an over-achiever; I am definitely a 'B' type personality and will never need to attend Workaholics Anonymous. Actually 'A' types make me nervous. Oscar Wilde once said, “Seriousness is the only refuge of the shallow.”
I want you to know that I don't drink or use any drugs, I don't have judgments about people who do, it's just not my scene. If drinking or getting high is an important part of your social life, I am probably not the guy for you. Some would assume that I am no fun, but the truth is I love to have fun, I love to laugh, tell jokes, poke fun at one another (not hurtful fun) and enjoy marveling at the absurdities of people. I mean, let's face it, there are a lot of very weird people in this world. I am not a SNAG, but I am a sensual person, very affectionate, I like to kiss, touch, cuddle, make love, etc. This might help; my typical vacation scenario is a hot climate with a beach with warm water, swimming, boogie boarding, diving, snorkeling, walking for miles on the beach till I'm exhausted, then reading a good book till I fall asleep, waking up and doing more of the same. Low maintenance is the key, the most difficult decision of the day should be; "where should we eat tonight".
I like people although I sometimes get too much stimulation and need alone time to stay centered. I love a good story, a good debate, a good movie, finding new exotic places to dine, staying home cooking with a good dvd, having friends over, concerts, comedy, supporting a good cause, volunteering, service work in the recovery community, discussing politics, current events, books, movies and plays we've seen...
I am in a place where I am not ready for a full blown committed relationship but that will come in time. I'd like a friend with benefits, emphasis on the friend part. Let's face it, benefits without friendship feels lonelier than lonely. I want to avoid being hurt or hurting someone else with a rebound relationship.
Look, I don't know where I'm going with this, so let's talk about you.
You like the stuff above. You're independent, laid back, young at heart, passionate and compassionate, intelligent, quick, have a sense of humor and are a seeker (spiritual, personal growth, etc). Look, the universe I mentioned earlier knows who and what you are, I don't. My job as I see it is to do the footwork and get out there and see who is put in my path.
If you think you'd like to meet me, go for it and get in touch.
Thanks for reading this small novel!