Date a soulmate from Rancho Palos Verdes, United States. My friends describe me as fun-loving, classy, statuesque and easy-going. I have a big heart, a great sense of humor and style, am physically trim and fit, extremely independent and financially secure, love life and family, treasure my friendships, am honest and sincere, spontaneous, and sometimes unpredictable! I can go from denim to diamonds in a heartbeat and am always ready for change. I enjoy decorating/remodeling, live in a spotless oceanfront home with views of Catalina Island and L.A. Harbor. I enjoy BBQ's, cooking and entertaining friends. I love trying new things, going new places, experiencing new adventures. I'm not big on planning ahead because of my business, but I can be ready to go on the spur-of-the-moment. I am secure with myself and happy with my life except for one missing link.... could it be YOU? I am searching for "Mr. Self-Assured" (likes himself and is not afraid to make decisions and show his emotions). He has a sense of humor, is honest and sincere in expressing his feelings, fun-loving and adventuresome, articulate, physically and mentally available. Intelligence is a big turn on! He is a compassionate and passionate man who knows how to treat a lady, knows who he is, where he has been and where he is going in life and is okay with it all. He is happy with himself and with his life, loves his family and treasures his friendships. He knows how to use a hammer and screwdriver if he had to or can read "How To..." directions. He enjoys entertaining and BBQ's and is respectful of his woman. Life holds too many great adventures to be spending time dwelling on the past or crying over spilled milk! If you are harboring negative feelings about your past relationships or ex's, keep on searching, because I like to live in the now, since the past is passed! I am looking for a best friend and it will begin from there. If the chemistry is there ... holding hands, kissing and public displays of affection are welcomed!