Date men and women from United States / California / Costa Mesa, 59 year old

Date someone special from Costa Mesa, United States. There's a lot of things that men on this site are looking for and I'm no different. The things that I miss and that I am looking for are an attractive lady who will allow me to give my coat when she's cold, always allow me to walk on her left, be a type of shield in all types of situations and let me think that I am making the decision for the two of us. I enjoy eating, but just as much, I enjoy the task of washing dishes. I'd much rather cuddle and talk than watch the boob tube and staying indoors on a Southern California day should be outlawed.
The short of it is "I'm looking for a female friend". I'm not the biggest guy, 5'9" and approx 160, so I'm looking for a lady that has a small frame and one that I can feel comfortable with. Currently I play pretty hard on Saturday/Sunday to where I feel pretty beat come Monday, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
I enjoy meals out, witty conversation, walks around the island, a drive up the coast, early morning surfing, then breakfast out, bicycling around the back bay. Current running joke is, if there is a Groupon lesson, I'm all over it (currently, paddle boarding, horse riding, golf and ice skating... haven't done sky diving yet). I've been meaning to try 'line dancing' just haven't gotten around to it.
Between work, the gym and ALL my weekend activities, I've managed to fill my week with interesting activities, but would like to find someone to enjoy these activities with.

Meet a soulmate from Costa Mesa, United States. I asked a female friend I have known for many years to describe me and this is what she said. You are fun, playful, hiliarious, honest and kind.. loyal, accepting, adventurous, and young at heart. A take charge kind of guy but not controlling, Confident but not arrogant. Passionate in his Interest and work. Genuine and down to earth guy, with a positive outlook on life..
I am two years out, from a long relationship. I choose to take some time to reflect, heal and re-group, before moving on to a new episode of life. No emotional baggage to bring forward...
Also spent the last few years, buried in the reconstruction of my business. I am ready to meet that Special Person to help me escape this current "self designed enviorment ".

Date men and women from Costa Mesa, United States. I am warm, witty and charming with a great sense of humor, and adore women who can laugh.
Are you looking for a tall, adventurous, physical, and fun type of man? Someone who is bright, loyal and respectful? Sensual and sexy? I also have a very sweet side that is easily brought out.
An accomplished professional with numerous patents (30) and awards in the medical industry (boring), who also loves a variety of activities (fun), including hawaiian art projects.
I like playing with cars, going to museums and movies, and usually enjoy a lot of different activities so feel free to share.
Do you like car shows? Pebble beach is Mid August and I am planning on going. Join me? It will be a blast!
I am sincere, emotionally available and financially secure.
I can relocate for the right person, so feel free to make me an offer I can't refuse!
WHO I AM LOOKING FOR
Smart, accomplished and sexy women are desired. If you enjoy holding hands and can both receive and give affection, I would love to hear from you.
If you can dance in the kitchen, put on a show with your new heels, or do something just to see me smile, you will win my heart.
I am looking for a woman who can commit to me as much as I will commit to you.
If you are a good kisser, that is the icing on the cake.
NOTE:
I DO NOT fling myself out of planes (But I will love to watch you do that), motocross in the desert, or try and scare the pants off my mate. I love calm romantic activities such as biking the strand or riding the balboa ferry. The profile pics can give the wrong impression I have been told. They just reflect an active lifestyle. I would also like to sit next to you on the beach and rub lotion on your back........something we both enjoy! You DON'T have to surf or even want to surf.......REALLY! I keep having to explain that in phone conversations.....just enjoy the warm water with me....OK?
No Harley either, but if you would rather ride in a Packard.......and trust me, you will, then we got that covered.
Please no winks. I would rather see your thoughts in a short email

Meet a man from Costa Mesa, United States. While I have never been married, I have had relationships with some wonderful women. I love being in love and know how to make a relationship work. I have many friends and would love to find life partner. I did not have many girlfriends when I was young (skinny shy) so I am naturally monogamous and appreciate affection. I am not a player. My past relationships have also taught me what to look for in a potential partner. If you make me laugh with unexpected things, I would be in heaven. My natural temperament is very easy-going and I am usually looking for humor in life. I am more than ready for the love of my life right now. Not the jealous type.
I'm Gomez looking for his Morticia. (see Addams Family Values) They were weird, but Extremely in Love. "Cara Mia!" I'd probably plant kisses up your arm too. Looking for someone to inspire who inspires me. I will always come through the door very happy to see you. I am not a work-a-holic. We both take care of ourselves out of self-respect and the desire to look great for each other too. Bonus points if you have fuzzy critters. When I arrive, the pets may get me first but I will always have a warm hug and kiss for you.
I solve problems for people as a consultant. It is fun and great to have people happy to see you. Every week is different and I control my schedule. Travel is mostly California. Had some tough career times in the nineties so I appreciate the great times now. I love my work and am always coming up with ways to improve. Working to set up a home based business so I can live anywhere and have pets. Right now I can live in LA/Orange County or the San Fran area.
I played keyboards professionally for 3 years. Written three worldwide distributed technical books. Number 4 is being birthed right now. I have a 50/50 tech/creative nature. One side is always trying to take over. Help! I am omniverous musically. I will eventually start playing live again.
Acttvities: Hike, bike, live music, yard work reading and some parties. Anything new at least once. I have many friends throughout the state that I visit in my travels.
I take care of myself. I eat mostly live food, occasionally fast, practice some yoga, exercise and have a terrific nutritionist. I was a skinny twig my first 25 years so I am very pleased by my physique now, in my 50's no less! I will work hard to keep fit for you (and myself) and I expect you to do the same. Sex? Yes!! I desire a happy and healthy lifestyle. I cannot watch my lover self destruct. NO gloomy or angry types. Angry people are bullies and I had enough of that in my youth. I have had massage training and I have a table. With a keyboardist's fingers, many have told me I am very good at massage.
I support animal rescue organizations, a music center, lib radio and some candidates. I help my family whenever possible, but I am not a sugar-Daddy. If you are looking for someone to support you financially, that is not me. I am very happy to take you out and pay for everything and I like helping you with your car and other things that guys naturally do better. You would warm my heart if you bought or directed me to clothes you would like to see me wear. (women are best at that) I do not think I know everything.
I smile often and am extroverted around my friends.

Date single man from Costa Mesa, United States. Hey there thanks for taking the time to read about me. I am honest to a fault, giving, smart, loving, loyal,responsible, hardworking, funloving, happy, dedicated, romantic,& fun to be around. A little reserved until I get to know you. I love traveling & being outdoors, but also love being home cooking & enjoying life. I dont mind doing the shopping or cleaning. A clean house is very important to me as that is how I was raised. I can build or fix almost anything from motorhomes to toasters. I get much satisfaction out of improving things. I am still very sexual & giving in that sense. I am not a quitter or cheater. I take relationships & comittments very seriously.I think it is very inportant to make someone feel loved with flowers for no reason or just doing some little extra thing. I would consider maraige again but only after a long relationship. I have spent the last 10 years raising my kids & am told often I am a great Father. Now its my turn to enjoy. I still give some time to my father as he is getting up there but otherwise free as a bird. I have lived in Newport & CDM most of the last 22 years but mainly because I enjoy being close to the ocean.
I would love to find an attractive woman that enjoys a lot of the same things I do. Blond & curves are nice, but not a deal breaker. I am not afraid to be alone so we dont have to share every interest. Caring about appearance & dress is important. Intimacy is very important. Financially resposible & secure is important. A great cook is awsome as I love to learn new cooking technics. I am sure you know by now what i am looking for. Serious only no games.

Meet people from Costa Mesa, United States. I'm an average kind of guy who takes care of himself in the physical as well as emotional and spiritual sense. I am very versatile and can go from jeans to black tie in an instant. I love cruising the coast on my Harley and if you too are a rider it would be a plus. Action movies, bowling, concerts,R&B, and outdoor activities are just a few of the things that I enjoy. I am also very open to trying new things and traveling. I seek someone that is completely down to earth and wouldn't mind just being in the here and now. No pretends.... I will not respond to profiles without a photo.

Date someone special from California, United States. i'm a hardcore tennis player/ instructor and fitness adviser. i enjoy beach walks and bike rides but my main focus is on ability and performance. if i can find a way to exercise while i'm doing something i will. i like to ride my bike 5 miles to my tennis club play 3 hours and ride home then go out to dinner. going to breckfast in sunset beach on my bike is a favorite i live in costa mesa so the ride is great.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am passionate about integrity, love, animals, political news, and travel.
I am always looking for ways to improve myself. I consider myself independent, serious, optimistic, hard worker, confident, not too hard to be pleased and easy satisfied. I want to experience life rather than read about it. Open mind, down to earth, person that care more about high EQ than High IQ. Respect everybody point of view. Capable of exploring communications and open too many possibilities.
I believe relationship has its own stages which I respect that and prefer to start with friendship then move on to dating and if everything worked out, plan to moving together. Getting married would be the last things to do. if any of you agree with what I said, you’re the perfect match for me.

Date men and women from California, United States. East coast New Yorker via Chicago out here the last couple of years since '09. Back and forth, and, now looking to make the move permanent. Real busy the last 30 years. Married for a short time back in late 70's -3yrs. Had two children when divorced in '78 - Christopher 3 years; Michael 9 months. Raised both boys by myself. Between work making a living and taking care of the kids, there was little chance / time for any kind of meaningful relationship. I suspect it was also difficult for anyone to want to sign up for a long term partnership / relationship with children responsibilities. So, I guess for years, I just meandered along, one superficial relationship to another. Took me some time over the last few years to realize that the kids were grown and that part of my life was over - sometimes it"s hard to change gears. Out here in California for a couple of years, I have come to reconcile what I really want in life - good friends to last the rest of my life , and, a long term partner to cherish and share my life with. I am very passionate about all that is around me, and, romantic at the slightest chance to be so. Always thinking and curious as heck. Imaginative and very playful - definitely will make you laugh like hell. I am very very young at heart and in mind. Very healthy and sometimes dangerously adventurous in the most loving of ways. Financially stable, dead honest / true blue loyal man. ..looking for soul mates in friends and one special lover. Are you out there?
I have no one perfect match. Life is sometimes more interesting with someone that is not a match. I guess I am a different kind of guy, as I myself can be the perfect match in many different ways.

Meet a man from California, United States. Hello and thanks for stopping by my profile!
This online venture is a first for me; and my friends have suugested this might be a good opportunity, so here I am :-)
Quite simply, I am an outgoing high energy guy that thrives in his business as well as his friendships. I am looking for those that might appreciate outdoor activities as I, have similar traits & have a great sense of humor.
Fun, light, laughter with great food and relaxed surroundings is all about my style!

Date single man from California, United States. Last night I went to "Taste of Newport" to see "foreigner", I didn't have a "date" so I asked my son Ryan.
We had a great time.
It would have been perfect if I had gone with a special someone. I do things like this weekly, it's great but having someone to share it with is better!
Now that I have participated in this dating site for a while I have realized that a large percent of the women on here have been divorced,
many are raising a few grown kids and are basically saying the same thing over and over... that they want a "good" man.
I suppose the men, including myself, are doing (saying) the same things... they want a good woman.
The fact is, they had one. Just like I had a good woman when I was 20 and married. Then we divorced eleven years ago. Whew, what has happened to us all? Is it us or is it this world we are experiencing?
Now we are looking for another because we are lonely. God bless us, our efforts are praiseworthy. We are on the right track even though it is an awkward one. Computers, pictures and bios, statistical percentages, canned smiles.
Some women say they are looking for "the perfect man for me". Wow, is that possible? Or are we all just people who have experienced a decent
marriage, did our best, succeeded some failed some and in time emerged from it all pretty much with what we had when we started, ourselves... and now, once again are needing some love and affection. We are the "recycled" and are caught in life's cruel recycling business. Divorced men and divorced women searching for something "better" than they once had before. It's a steep slope. Can we actually do "better"? Or should we be courageous enough to lower the bar and find a perfectly normal "person" who wants love too?
I would be happy with a woman that is independantly happy but lacks a companion. I'm not even sure I ever need to be "married" again, isn't that for raising children? I'm not against it though, if it is important for the woman.
Financially I have been wealthy and have been poor. I think I have been happy in both situations because I find my happiness in "God" and the experiences I have learned through
my studies in College, University and in my own intense research about who we are, what we are, why we are here and where we are going. I have three College degrees, each of which are in subjects that adress the psyche, something that is more important to humans than gold.
The human psyche seeks answers and has hard questions. Dedicating most of my life to the studies of philosophy, Theology, archaeology and paleontology (dinosaurs) my studies have addressed these questions nicely for me.
And amazingly, I have found real, tangible answers that have strongly affected my view of what this life is, how short it is, and how it should be lived. Well, I have gone on and on a little but I wanted to devulge a little more about myself.
A companion, friend, lover, consort, would be nice, and if she was somewhat easy on the eyes, that wouldn't hurt either.
But then beauty is in the eye of the beholder and who knows, You could be that one.
When eyes meet, it's the heart that knows, don't you think?.

Meet people from California, United States. Just wanted to see what this site is about and see if there is anyone interesting, Enjoy my soccer matches, and playing golf, have whole weekends free and like to take long drives on the coast, maybe leave late Friday, and get Home late Sunday, just an escape from the norm