Date men and women from United States / California / Granite Bay, 59 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Difficult to describe myself. You have to form your own opinion. I can say that I am educated, well travelled and very adaptable to changes. I was just told that I can not have less than 200 words. So, here goes. My friends say I am friendly, but very extrovert. I love new adventures and to learn about new and exciting cultures. I love to meet people and love exciting conversations. I am romantic but not demonstrative in public places. I also love a quiet home life with all the trimings

Meet someone special from United States. First of all I'm not Mr. Excitement. Not a daredevil pushing life to 110%. I have a very stable, consistent personality, not prone to wide mood swings.
I like doing fun, entertaining things especially in the company of friends. People enjoy my sense of humor and intelligence. Most say that I'm outgoing even though I may feel more on the shy side inside.
I am widowed but was married for 33 years and have 3 wonderful, adult aged, kids, 2 still at home, all of which a parent couldn't ask for kids.
I work in the world of commercial lending, at one time heading up the sales forces for some major lenders and owning my own company. However with the economy being what it has been over the last few years have taken refuge in a safer job with the federal government. I would describe myself as financial stable.
I'm looking for a relationship with a person who shares some common interests, such as domestic travel to all the places I haven't been to, but always wanted to investigate. Or who enjoys going out to a movie, concert or just out with friends to enjoy some live music, good food and drink.
I'm also looking for someone who is emotionally stable and has self confidence. Someone who enjoys time together as well as their own "me" time.
I'm attracted to woman who are confident and outgoing, ones who want to take the lead sometimes, but also see life as a partnership that involves give and take.

Date people from United States. Let's see I'm a 50's professional, widowed with two kids (girls in their tweens and teens). I've been cursorily involved in the arts since I was a kid myself, and got my degree in theater before coming to the realization that I had to make a living. Was married and faithful for 25 years.