Date a soulmate from Belmont Shore, United States. I'm absolutely blessed with a GREAT life and every day I live with Gratitude; Integrity and Character are woven into every facet of my life; fairly sports inept, but willing to learn; I’m compassionate, caring, and generous; I give Great Hugs and am Romantic; it took me awhile, but I learned to slow down and just enjoy; healthy and in shape; smile and laugh easy; I'm emotionally and financially secure; really enjoy going to Church every Sunday and believe in God (but, I really don’t understand the whole “Religious Right” thing); surf often; and love the Tropics. Simply, I’m just a good guy.
I retired a few years ago and live a fairly “vagabond” life style in that I spend about an equal amount of time between my homes in a beautiful part of the Central California Coast (4 houses from the beach) and Costa Rica (100 yards to the beach). That makes it a bit tough to find a Woman that can, or that would be willing to join me. Although it’s a very blessed life, for the right Woman, I’d give it all up to join her in her life.
What I want in a Mate is for her to be “real” – in my book, that means that she has and continues to learn from her life lessons; she is comfortable in her own skin; she believes in God (whatever version she chooses); if she's feeling a bit anxious or unsure, she’ll know that I’ll still be by her side; she is kind to people; she knows how to laugh and have fun; if she has kids, she adores them, but understands that if you put them on a pedestal too much, that can mess them up; “Chemistry” would really be cool; that her idea of “Travel” is not going to Vegas for the weekend; and she’s open to cultural experiences.
I understand that many Women desire the security, wisdom, emotional stability, skill sets, financial stability, and life experiences of an older guy with the body and hairline of a 22 year old. Uhhhhh, it probably doesn’t exist, but it doesn’t hurt to ask (and dream). If you’re looking at only the superficial (“are we a stud”) with those of us who have some years on them, you might be missing out on that whole wish list (“Order-A-Man”) thing that many of you dream and write about.
I’m going to be spending a great deal of time in the next few months in So Cal, so I invite you to roll the dice by trying something different – both of our lives might change for the better.
I wish you the best in your search.
P.S.: As of 11 July, my adventure with Match is coming to a close - due to the Twilight Zon-i-ness of it all, I've decided not to renew. Thank you and I wish you the best in Life and Love. R