Date men and women from United States / California / Benicia, 59 year old

Date single man from Benicia, United States. Retired kids grown. Lots of free time. Life is good but I think it could be better with the right woman. The right woman could be you, if your up to trying different activities like riding motorcycles hiking shooting guns at targets. With not much baggage and happy with yourself.

Meet a soulmate from Benicia, United States. My account has been hacked two times in the last two days...my apologies for any inconvenience this has caused anyone.
have you even had a moment when you felt a warm glow from a piece of music, touched by a movie or story or seen something wonderful or amazing that you just ached to share with someone who could really share that moment with you? someone who with just a touch or a look lets you know they get it too? someone who knows you so well that they will cherish you even at your worst and believe in you no matter what comes? and who you couldn't imagine your life without? perhaps there are those who are here for some other reasons than these... but i have to believe there might be someone like that, like me, here for such reasons...and maybe, just maybe, there might be enough magic left in the world for us to find each other... perhaps even here...
there are two things in life that make all things possible:
first:
awareness, knowing yourself, your wants and needs, your strengths and weaknesses, and how you fit into the world around you, being comfortable in your "own skin"... knowing what you want and need and how to find your way, knowing what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad... and having learned to make good choices...
and second
being willing, participating, recognizing magic when it comes to us and having the courage to say yes, that that while being a good observer is part of life, that life is an active thing, you may get your hands dirty or your heart broken, yet life is so much more than just getting through the challenges and making a living and raising our children, there is wonder and beauty all around us, live life like you mean it, there will never enough time to do it again... and there is nothing in the world better than being in love and being loved by your best friend....
I want to build a life with the a partner/friend/lover and have history and traditions and memories to share and cherish. the right lady will be one i can spend the rest of my life spoiling without her ever becoming spoiled...not so much with money or things, but with intimacy and love...
timing is very important...i realize that those of us who have reached this point in life have some bruises, i have my own, you likely have yours, but if we really want to have the things that so many of these posts say they want we have to have healed enough to be able to look ahead and go with your feelings where ever they may take you/us without seeing the past in our future
people ask "why is this so hard (to meet and have a great relationship)" and i suspect that at least part of the answer is that by this time most of us have formed an idea of what we want, have had a few relationships before and aren't ready to settle for something less than what will work for more than a couple of months...
there are two things in life that make all things possible:
first:
awareness, knowing yourself, your wants and needs, your strengths and weaknesses, and how you fit into the world around you, being comfortable in your "own skin"... knowing what you want and need and how to find your way, knowing what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad... and having learned to make good choices...
and second
being willing, participating, recognizing magic when it comes to us and having the courage to say yes, that that while being a good observer is part of life, that life is an active thing, you may get your hands dirty or your heart broken, yet life is so much more than just getting through the challenges and making a living and raising our children, there is wonder and beauty all around us, live life like you mean it, there will never enough time to do it again... and there is nothing in the world better than being in love and being loved by your best friend....

Date men and women from Benicia, United States. This may be impossible, but, I'm seeking the girl that is pretty, witty and intelligent. One whose presence/essence, draws my attention by just being there. You know, the girl, the one that you feel the chemistry with! One that makes you feel complete. One who I would enjoy spending idol time with, or going places and doing things with. When I find her/or her me, this seeking will end. That would be a good day! They (Match) want more, .... being in the medical field, I like to walk the talk. Eat right and keep fit, going to the gym, bike rides and late night runs.
I like to travel!

Meet someone special from Benicia, United States. I tremendously enjoy the outdoors, especially the beach... love to ride my bike, enjoy working out 3 or 4 times a week... love going to the movies or staying home and cuddle on the couch... love dinning out... love my jeans and t-shirt but have no problem to dress up on occasions...