Date men and women from United States / California / Valencia, 59 year old

Date a soulmate from Valencia, United States. Where do I begin, I guess I am looking to meet someone and be friends first and see if it takes us to a mutual place in emotion and future. I must tell you I am a widower who lost his wife to cancer and we had a great relationship, and all the things that go with it, if you actually want to know we met on this site, so I know this site can work.
I have two children ages 15 and 17, who live with me one week at a time, and they also have a special place in my life. It was mentioned to me this was confusing, since my wife passed away. Actually, my kids are from a prior marriage, and I get along with my ex and her boyfriend.
I guess I am looking to see if there is someone out there who would like to see what life has to offer, share in special moments, enjoy a family, and most of all have fun in doing so. I've been told I live my life like a kid, and look younger and I guess even act younger, because I enjoy life, you will have to make your own decision on that subject.
I am not into drama or drugs, I was in law enforcement my entire life and now coach girls high school softball. So I think you would be safe with me, at least I have had the background check, and it came up clean.
I hope after reading my profile I have given you some insight as to who I am and what I am looking for in life and a person. If any of those things are similar to your interest, please send me a wink or message and I will get back with you. Remeber to smile, and have a great day. Gary

Meet people from Valencia, United States. I am considered by my friends to be happy , optimistic, and sometimes kind of funny guy, much younger than my years. A romantic at heart, I enjoy holding hands, candlelit dinners, walks on the beach and nice conversation, a gentleman always.
my interests include hiking, bicycle rides and drives along the beach, racket ball with my buds and even hitting the tread mill a couple times a week. Gardening and home improvement projects, music and reading are my current passions.
The woman I am looking for would be someone who shares common interests and is willing to take time to get out and explore. I look forward to sharing places and and activities that she finds interesting and enjoyable as well. I am not looking for the perfect woman, just one perfect for me.

Date men and women from Valencia, United States. I'm easy going with a great outlook on life. I like to make people laugh an put a smile on their face. I especially like to spoil my partner... I enjoy doing spur-of-the-moment things. Pack a lunch, drive to the beach or just hang out, watch a movie and enjoy each others company. I like to BBQ with friends and enjoy good company.