Date men from United States / California / Monterey Park, 53 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. After 25 years with a great girl who passed away in 2008(cancer), I think it's time to climb out of my shell.
When I went to college 25 plus years ago, I did all those crazy things before "Animal House" copyrighted them. But like a decent bottle of wine I had to mellow out, and remain robust. I can't do those John Belushi cartwheels I used to do, but I don't drink like that anymore either. I'm still the same guy I was in 1977. Just a little grey hair that's all.
I like to think that I'm still trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent. Yes I was a boy scout, and an altar boy.
Just Looking for a nice girl. You can be a bad girl too. But be cool. I'm Not the guy that will spoil you, but I will care for you when times are difficult. And I'll sing and dance on request, after a glass of wine or two.
This sounds corny, but I was at that candlelight vigil at the Dakota Apartments in NYC the night after John Lennon died December of 1980.
All you need is Love.