Date men from United States / California / Inverness, 53 year old

Date someone special from United States. I like a good balance of work and play. I like to be spontaneous. Enjoying life relieves stress. Mini afternoon breaks, evening music events, dinning and dancing in Marin. Trips to the city or weekend get away to the sierras.
I'm a construction/contractor and entrepreneur and work hard at it but I work to live, not live to work. Although I mostly enjoy my work.
I live on 85 acre estate in North Marin, where I care for several horses.
I would like someone with similar interests but not the same, if you know what I mean. Someone who values the same things I do. I'm looking for a friend to enjoy live with and maybe an extended family.