Date a man from Arcata, United States. We walk hand-in-hand on a rocky beach at sunset, with the magical full Moon rising. The nearby Maple tree gives its red Autumn greeting. The seals bark, a light veil of water droplets floats in the air; the shore birds dive in and out of that foggy veil -- reflected light bouncing off their white wings with each turn. We muse on our meeting, on the internet, several years ago -- back in 2012. We have kept alive that initial spark between us, as our relationship has now deepened into the greatest spiritual journey of our lives . . .
Who am I? Here are a few of my aspects: I'm an alpha male -- quite confident, clear about life, strong, steady, responsible, hard-worker, honest, etc. A lot of compassionate male strength. And yet, when appropriate, I still have a lot of fun with my inner little boy. I came to Humboldt to build, with my own hands, a cabin in the sacred redwood forest. l'm wildly in love with Humboldt's forests and rocky shores. I've long been an HSU prof in astrophysics. As my left and right brains have become more balanced, I enjoy sharing my more magical life in my Cosmic Visions workshop (google it, if you're curious, but it's just for locals because it takes weeks of attendance). I eat healthily and live purely, without getting into fascism judging others. The number one love in my life is raising my beautiful 7-year old son, who I have half-time.
My strongest trait, besides being the best dad in the world, is my ability to communicate. My left brain is good at presenting clear, reasonable views. But communication goes far beyond that -- my years have brought skill at being able to *really* listen to you. We will disagree on things, but if I choose you as an intimate, you will feel heard and deeply understood, with a partner who is rooting for you. It would be wildly deep fun to for us to help each other evolve to higher levels. After knowing a woman for a week or for years, women *always* confide that knowing me has made their life better. It's mysterious, but seems to be inevitable.
Are you a warm, nurturing, happy woman? A woman who is naturally optimistic, energetic, healthy psychologically, and who values effective communication? Great. There's just one last aspect . . . physicality.
I envision life energy as flowing through our soul, our mind, and our body. We humans are *embodied* consciousness and I embrace and celebrate the animal form that evolution has given us. I am a lifetime athlete and have the lean muscled body of a 30 year old. I hang with, and out-perform most in-shape guys in their 20's in weight-lifting, martial arts, forest biking, etc. It would be wondrous if you shared a sense of the power and spiritual energy of having physical vitality, and that you are one with your toned body (think deer, not cow). As for the many women on this site whose interest do not so strongly include a path of physicality -- I respect your chosen life journey, I bet you are wondrous and I'll truly miss enjoying your other energies.
Most likely a woman who shares my sense of physicality is quite a bit younger than I. Such an age gap has a flip side to it -- I have not been wasting my time during these centuries, I have been gaining skill: as a best friend, as a lover who can leave you feeling fulfilled and treasured, and as a man whose psyche can nourish you as a woman -- intertwining our energies to lead to something beyond friendship and passion, into the realm of a true spiritual experience. If we seem to fulfill one another's hopes, then let's dance . . . please contact me.
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Date someone special from Arcata, United States. I am looking for a good hearted holsome down to earth woman who wants meet a man like she has never met before. If she wants to be treated like a woman should be treated. I will cook you the finest meal you ever had. It has been said that the woman who marries me will be the luckest woman in the world