Date men from United States / California / Middletown, 53 year old

Date someone special from Middletown, United States. Would like to meet a person that can be independant, but needs companionship and adult company. Someone that like to spend time with the kids and doesn't see them as the reason their life isn't like it was when they didn't have kids someone who cares for people. Can you be happy alone can you be happy with someone when they are right here and when they are away. People will tell that they are not selfish but really it's human nature to selfish it is what makes us care for our selves and others.

Meet single man from Middletown, United States. 53 year old semi retired physician in excellent physical condition, 6' , 200 lbs. I am into weight training, snow skiing, golf, travel, restoring old houses. I have a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests from four wheeling in the desert to fine dining in Europe. I live in a nice old house I restored near downtown San Diego. I like to comfortably get to know each other and gradually see what happens. I am seeking a nice, down to earth lady who enjoys the finer things in life and at least some physical activity like gym or long walks; additional l like skiing a plus. Prefer in good shape and 30 to 50 years old. Lets be friends first, maybe more?................

Date a soulmate from Middletown, United States. Self descriptions may tend to get exaggerated, so it would be best if they are done in person, through time.
As for my ideal match, I just want to be compatible with her. Appearance, income, views/beliefs and faith are not important, as long as she is cool!