Date a soulmate from California, United States. So, this is the hard part for me. I have been going to school most of my life to try and figure out what I want for myself. Now that I am done with that venture, it is time for me to add someone else to the picture. I love my job-career and where I live and want to share that with someone who is kind and loving, that makes me laugh and is not looking for another fling.