Date women from United States / California / Fort Bragg, 53 year old

Date someone special from Fort Bragg, United States. I love to laugh but I don't think life is a joke... can you make me laugh? My friends think I'm too nice, a bit too giving...can you help me moderate that? I am passionate about my volunteer work...can you appreciate that? Truthfully, I've always said that if I could meet a man who would shoot pool at the neighborhood biker bar one day and go to the opening of the symphony in black tie the next day, I would marry again. I'm aware that that's extreme, but can you come close? Also... I smoke- a little less than a pack a day, and I hate it! As of yet, I have not been able to quit. If this is a real problem for you I can understand that, but please don't contact me. What else? Family and friends are very important to me, my idea of camping is a hotel without room service! :) and I love music. I'm told that I'm funny- both Ha Ha and strange. That's all for now fellas-