Date women from United States / California / Bloomington, 56 year old

Date someone special from Bloomington, United States. My friends tell me I am up front and honest. I am warm, out going, intelligent and independent. I love to be around my friends and go to our favorite spot for a night out singing Karaoke. We enjoy kicking up our heels on the dance floor. Old fashion lady with values and morals. I try to make my man feel special at all times and do not play games. I feel I have a higher level of self esteem and work on it daily. I am also comfortable in a nice pair of Jeans. Confident but not self absorted. I am very unique and only improve with age just like fine wine. I need a confident man to balance the relationship. I am not afraid to get my hands dirty and I am known to attempt just about anything. I am not photogentic at all so please forgive my photo's. I have been single for years and now find I am ready willing and able to settle down with one great guy.
My man must know where is he going in life. Has learned from his mistakes of the past and lives for a future. Personality and charater is very important. He must be able to have a stimulating conversation and make me laugh. Sometimes I take life just to serious so laughter is good for my soul. He must be able to feel with his heart and see life through his eyes that leads to his soul. Well rounded with family and friends but can offer a balanced relationship. I need a man who is not quick to judge and is understanding with life. I need him to be open and honest about his past and his future. I am not looking for a man for financial gain as I am surely not a gold digger. I have supported my self since I was married years ago. Dinning and dancing are a treat but walks on the beach or the mountains can be just as rewarding. Most of all my man must make me feel secure in his arms. I need a man who will know when to stand in front of me but also knows when to step behind me. As an Auctioneer many times I occur situations where a strong side must be shown. Some times I feel I have a need to let my man take the reins and lead me to or away from a situation. Good luck in your quest. Debra