Date men and women from United States / California / Pacific Grove, 60 year old

Date a man from California, United States. . Careers and the material world are important yet we all need to be part of this other thing called LIFE, this experiance , this journey... I have come to the realization that no matter how independant I am or how strong I feel as a individual being, I am still only a "half "seeking somehow to locate my other half . It is only the nature of things.. Sometime ago I heard a term that resonated with me... It was in regards to a relationship ... it was referred to as "a lengendary love affair" That stuck in my mind as something that we all want..yet how do we find it or create it? Of course it is impossible to do it on your own... however there are things that we can do...while your other half is finding you... such as, be the best that we can be.. live a great life, have that dream, hold it in your mind.. force it into reality by your will to love. So I have decided to seek a legendary love affair! If this does not seem ridiculous to you then perhaps we are vibrating at the same frequency. Having one special lady to relate to as a best friend and a partner in all things only makes sense... Trust and respect can bond two hearts and that is enough to make a start to becoming more. When I say more I am talking about love and and a home. A home where the family members belong. Where there is not only a sense of belonging and security but a genuine feeling of kindness and peace.. Succeeding in love is not that complex ... we sometimes make it complicated because of our selfishness or perhaps our foolishness yet if two beings want the same goal then it becomes an easy and comfortable undertaking that can be really quite fun! I am seeking an attractive bright counterpart that has some life experiance to draw from and someone who wants to have a healthy active lifestyle. Family means different things to different people so I should say I love kids and have a dream to have little ones in my life. I also know that I am capable of loving a child that needs to be loved so if there was a situation where some lady had a child or maybe even two I would be open to joining their crew... as it were. I consider myself a creative and high energy person... I like to work and love to play.. Travel is a priority but only after the dishes are done!! My talents include many various areas yet for the last ten years I have been designing residential kitchens and I am a general contractor. I presently live in Monterey where I built my own home. I have many interests and hobbies that change all the time depending what I discover as I am very curious about many things. I am reading a book right now by Barbara De Angelis called "Are you the one for me?" She says that we spend more time shopping for tires than we do for finding the right life mate... that is a sobering statement... I am interested in finding common ground with someone who is compatible. I am good with my finances and would hope that is an important part of your situation as well, I would invite you to contact me if any of these things sound reasonable and you are seeking a legendary love affair