Date people from Caliente, United States. There are some things that are better learned about a person, after you know them better and can put some of those things in the context of their lives. But these first words on Match can either leave an impression of confidence or one of arrogance, and frankly I’ve read some profiles that would scare the most accomplished and confident man I know off to the next profile. So I find myself in the position of wanting to give you a good picture of who I am, but not wanting to say to much to soon. If you’ve made it this far in your life, then you probably have some pretty amazing stories to tell about the things you have seen, and what you have done. Im gona just try and hit the high points in my life, and if you have any questions after that, than I will know you are interested. Who am I ??? I am the father of triplet sons that I raised on my own, im a published author, a published singer songwriter, a farrier, a Hoof Care Practitioner, a business owner, and a man that would like to find a woman to compliment my life, and that needs the kind of man that I am to compliment hers. I get a kick out of the people that are so intent on making sure that you understand ,that they want a relationship, but that they don’t need a relationship, that they are just fine on their own, and happy, and that they have all these friends and family that are so important to them and that they are independent, and financially secure and so fulfilled by all this, THAT THEY HAVE COME TO MATCH.COM JUST TO FIND ONE LITTLE PIECE OF THE PUZZLE THAT THEY HAVE BEEN MISSING. Im sorry, but no one spends this kind of time on something that they just want. Companionship, communication, and the love of that one special person, that you know you can trust to the end, is a NEED. It is a human NEED and something that we look and strive for all of our lives, even sometimes when we are already in another relationship. The kind of love that brings you to tears in the arms of your lover, the kind of love that makes you feel so secure and so sure of that person, that when you reach that special moment together your eyes locked, no one else matters. If you’ve never had that, then you wont rest until you find it, if you’ve had it and lost it, then you will never be able to settle for anything less. I know that sometimes we have to put our love life on hold, and take care of ourselves, and that usually means, get threw a divorce, or get those kids raised. But most of us are hear for the same reason no matter how we describe it.