Date men and women from Signal Hill, United States. I grew up on a farm in the Midwest. I'm half Italian and half French Canadian. I lived in Mexico for a couple of years working with a non-profit organization helping to improve the life style of the impoverished areas of Mexico. My career is in Project Control Management of major construction projects. I am stable in my life and have many hobbies and social activities I enjoy. I am affectionate and loving and I want a woman in my life for intimacy and companionship. I am not looking for a relationship to get a life because I already have one. I am looking for a relationship that would enhance my life. I want to be with someone who shares some interests and goals with me but also has her own interests and goals to help her grow as a person and contribute to us as a couple. A good relationship will take work. We can't get from another person what we don't have within. I will make the effort to preserve what we have and add to it. Past relationships have taught me how to be a better listener and how to compromise a little more. I am looking for unconditional love, where both persons are willing to see another way of doing things or another point of view. Each person should bring out the best in the other. My ideal lady and I say lady, because she is confident, caring, smiles and laughs a lot. Looking at life as being opportunities rather than have to's. Positiveness is very important to me. Being able to talk about anything and everything. Not afraid of getting close emotionally or physically.