Date men from United States / California / North Highlands, 30 year old

Date someone special from North Highlands, United States. Thanks for stopping by. I've decided to step out of my comfort zone and see if she exists. With that said, let me share somethings about myself. In my free time I listen to music (R&B, neo-soul, jazz, and Old School), cook, travel, and create life long memories with friends and family. I'm also a HUGE 49er fan. Currently I am extremely focused on working out and more about creating a healthier life for myself and those around me. Most of my friends and family would say I tend to have this hard on the outside but soft on the inside type of vibe.
I love to laugh and can be very outgoing but sometimes I'd rather be a bit more reserved and lay low at home with some music or a good movie. Even sometimes having friends over for dinner, listening to music, and chatting seems comforting to me.
Why am I here?
I'm looking to engage in some great conversations, laughter, and hopefully some great times/memories with a friend.
What am I hoping for from someone?
I am more concerned with someone that has a open heart and mind, someone to share good and bad times with. Honesty is a plus and that's not only being honest but being able to handle honesty when it's given to you in return. Additionally, an outgoing person would be nice too, but I'm really into real people with goals and ambitions. I'm looking for depth in someone and a relationship (not physical) possibly. So if you're on here and looking for a great friend and conversation then I hope to hear from you.
Thanks for reading.