Date men from United States / California / Seal Beach, 30 year old

Date a soulmate from Seal Beach, United States. I work hard, live at the beach, stay healthy and spend time laughing with my friends and family....that's me. Former cop, needed a change and now I do executive security and consulting...in between playing in the ocean and walking around petting the neighborhood dogs. Life is really tough, and I soak up every second.
I can be complicated...but in a good way. I know what I want, and don't settle easily...but giving things time and rolling the dice once and a while can be worth the effort, that I know.
Not looking for a girl to fix me or to be a 'Stage 5 Clinger' (you have probably had a few yourself)....just someone to compliment my life...which is already awesome...and grow with me. Ever felt the same way?
Be cool, be yourself, love yourself and who you are, love the outdoors and playing in it, love good food, trying new things and be fit.
A great attitude and outlook go a long way with me...and having a bit of an adventurous personality is key.
Is that you? Then say hi.
Cheers,
Josh

Meet a man from Seal Beach, United States. Welcome to my profile page! I just moved to Seal Beach, CA a couple weeks ago. I was raised right and born in southwest Virginia. Typical southern gentleman traits: respectful, honest and hardworking. It’s not the deep south where everyone talks, thinks and moves slower. I’m a good blend. When I wasn’t in Virginia, I spent time in New England on the ski slopes in the winter or on the lake in the summer. I enjoy being outdoors, my drink of choice is bourbon on the rocks, I prefer movies over TV, music to anything else and I like reading my Kindle instead of a paperback book. I work a lot of hours during the week, but know how to turn it off when I’m not working and put things that are the most important first (i.e. – you!). I’m not the loudest person at the party and I prefer smaller groups where I can get to know people. I also prefer bars to clubs where you can talk, hear and understand the other person. I am new to the beach lifestyle and I’m living two blocks from the beach now, which is amazing!
I think most of life is about timing and what stage you’re at in life. Two people can have great chemistry, but if they’re at different stages in life, then it doesn’t work. I am at the stage in life where I am looking for a super cool and fun girl to hang out with that would like to check out the southern California area. Ideally I would like to become great friends with this person and start a relationship. Just the other day, I was talking to someone about taking surfing lessons and they told me about someone getting attacked by a stingray, because they didn’t shuffle their feet when walking into the surf to scare the stingrays away. Seriously, how would I know to do that?
Obviously, being a native Californian girl isn’t a prerequisite to getting to know me, but being adventurous and awesome is. I like to have fun and see new things and would like to meet someone that I could share those new experiences with. I know I just got here, but Southern California seems like one of the coolest places in the world so I really want to explore everything the area has to offer.

I have to leave a few things for us to talk about so, if you like me on the surface then you’ll love getting to know me more. If you’d like to get to know some more about me then shoot me an e-mail and I will respond. If you made it this far then thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from you!