Date men from United States / California / Sonora, 30 year old

Date someone special from United States. There is a clever RB song titled, “Sure Thing”. I think about relationships and the only sure thing that comes to my mind is that it’s going take time and cost money. A distance relationship will generally require more time and money. With that said, most people tend to go a little farther for the right person than stay close and meet the wrong ones. When establishing a distance relationship I’ve found two important things are good phone conversations and long dates. I’ve found an extreme difference in the conversations I’ve had with different women. Some, from the first date on, they want to spend an hour on the phone every night, long pauses; good conversation and others; I get about a 10 minute phone call once a week. Long dates are also important from the second date on. Some women want to get together for a 2-hour date, and I've had a second date that was 9 hours long.
One thing that I’ve had some trouble grasping is the reasons a woman would want to be in a relationship and the reasons she would want to get married. If a woman can have any guy she wants, and all guy’s have bodies with millions of dollars in (potential) medical costs coming up, experiences seem like a pretty weak reason to justify your involvement with someone. If there isn’t much reason for a woman to justify in her mind being around me (Other than me being potentially able to financially support her) why does she feel so special about me being loyal to her? It would seem like an (older) woman would realize that this “special” loyalty could end at any moment, if I were to have an affair. Female loyalty toward me interests me because it seems like in extreme cases a woman with over the top loyalty doesn’t even care if her guy has an affair or might eventually have an affair. With my sister’s marriage she kind of looked the other way regarding her husband’s girlfriend on the side for several months before she finally made up her mind that she needed to get a divorce. It seemed to me that, if her husband had a girlfriend on the side and she didn’t care about that, she wouldn’t care about anything else he might do. Why would my sister put up with this? A common reason a woman would have lunatic loyalty to a man would have to do with, what she believes her guy is capable of doing. If she thinks what he does is special that might justify loyalty. My sister didn’t even have a guy who could support her financially even if he wanted to and it’s strange to me that she would have seemingly lunatic loyalty to him based on intangible experience feelings. My sister had a lot of urgency about getting married young, which is further evidence that to her experiences are very important.
An overemphasis on beauty from my perspective is something that disturbs me about the goals of having a life partner. Some things like teeth can be vastly improved if you spend enough money on dental work; this would be an example of how you can change beauty on a person by spending a lot of money. It seems to me that a lot of men seem to like a good looking female companion around them so other’s notice them with a good looking girl and this is another wrong reason to want a girlfriend or wife. An overemphasis on beauty is confusing because it could rapidly or slowly change with time, which would mean that my reasons for being loyal would have to be based on something else too. Just a few weeks ago I had a pretty 24 year old girl with a five year old kid show relationship interest in me and I wasn’t interested at all. This 24 year old lives in an apartment building that I wouldn’t feel comfortable taking a girlfriend to, and I know for a fact that she didn’t finish high school. This 24 year old is a perfect example of a pretty girl who can’t be in a relationship with me no matter how hard she tries, it doesn’t matter that she’s pretty. However, me basing my loyalty on things like education or type of job probably is snobbish compared to basing it on beauty.

Meet a man from United States. So ladies look me up hit me up just don't hit me up for money just fun drinks a little dancing here and there.... I like movies, art, photography, camping and so much more just ask...I want kids and I'm not crazy about a smoker so so sorry ... Love to chill lake or beach side... I cook that's a plus come on... I like grilling I'm a meat and potatoes kind of guy.... I may cause shortness of breath dizines, adrenalin rush, may make you nerves and sweating is also possible from dancing get your head out of the gutter..

Date a soulmate from United States. Welllp here goes... I grew up in a small country town, played sports my whole life and played baseball in college, finishing with a degree in business management. I've now settled into a great career and really enjoy my work. Since I work a lot I really don't get into the social scene too often so I decided to give this a try.
I'm a really good guy(awesome guy actually lol), an athlete at heart who is easy to please. I love playing outside and being active. During the winter I snowboard as much as possible!! Seriously, I'm an addict. I'm really easy going, probably the most laid back guy you'll ever meet, I'm fun, I love laughing and sharing stories, jokes, fishing and camping. I feel at ease the most when I'm in the mountains but I love to go to the beach, on a road trip, or stay inside with a good movie when it's storming outside. ummmm what else... I play guitar, I listen to anything acoustic, classic rock, country and anything else with a good beat. I'm good with my hands, I'm what you might call a crafty craftsman. No fruity drinks here, give me a dark ale and I'm happy! My family and friends are the best.
I'm looking for a girl who is adventurous, likes the outdoors, if she can snowboard or ski already that is a HUGE plus, she has to be a total sweetheart who can keep it classy, genuine, compassionate, caring, kind, able to roll out in a t-shirt and jeans but can doll herself up with ease. OH, and camping is mandatory! lol in a tent, on the ground or in the back of my truck! just not the RV or trailer kind :)
If you think we'd get along, don't be shy, hit me up! :)