Date women from United States / California / Cupertino, 33 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I love baseball...
I am a divorced single mom of 3.
Look... if the fact that I have kids bothers you, its cool I am not going to take offense. just stop reading now and move along.
I am going to school full time for my Masters in Finance and Accounting. I have my bachelors in HR Management and I work full time as an estimating engineer, database developer and company analyst in Marin County.
I love and value my family and friends. I am not looking for a fling or anything like that, I don't have the need for that, finding a boy toy is a lot easier than finding a real man.
I try to spend as much of my time as I can Rock Climbing, doing martial arts, hiking, lifting weights, or anything that is active really. I also look forward to the time I get to spend having coffee and reading the paper in the morning and doing the crossword, or even just hanging out watching a movie with my friends or my kids. Most of my time lately has been spent on school or working but I make the time for my friends, hiking and hanging out with the kids.
I am not the prissy, lets go shopping type of girl. I like to talk about sports and cars and get down and dirty.
I'm a professed nerd. I love my superheros (batman and wolverine are my favorites), I've played DD regularly (tho not for a few years), I love vampires, I beat every video game I play, and I school my kids at doing it right. And I can ace most any quiz on Star Wars... Yep nerd :-) and I'm ok with that.
Sarcasm is a language, and I speak it fluently.
Life is funny, so I laugh at it. I will laugh at you, myself and anyone else.
I do most everything with my kids. They are my best friends and I honestly enjoy their company. They are turning out pretty great if I do say so my self :-)
why am I here?
Well, finding guys in bars is lame and annoying. It's a waste of time, and I don't have the time to waste. I would much rather be spending time enjoying my life and being with my kids than spending my time out at bars.
I am looking for someone that will be a good friend, wants a real relationship and that will be able to hang out and enjoy himself where we may be.
Don't be shy, life is too short. I love to meet new people, its fun. But I only need quality people in my life. Please don't waste my time if you're only interested in games, drama or a worthless fling. If you are looking to potentially have something substantial and real, then drop me an email.
Coffee or a walk in the park or something public and comfortable for both of us, would be ideal for a first meet.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I find I totally lost myself now. And I would like to find someone who can take me out.
I hope he is a gentleman who is full of passion on life, treat me nice.
I know life is great, and I would like to enjoy it.