Date women from United States / California / Cupertino, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. People say that I'm a sweet, thoughtful, honest, generous, and happy person. I love helping people in need - in my family, at work or wherever I go, I love to be there for whomever needs help.
My list of simple pleasures:
- Give him a good morning kiss & hug when he wakes up and say I Love You
- Snuggle next to him and put my head on his chest and put his arm around me
- Give him a shoulder massage when he comes home from work
- Listening to good music in the car
- Taking a long, relaxing shower
- Watching the sunrise
- Kissing in the rain
- Iced green tea
- Walking on the beach
- Holding hands and watching the sunset
- Snuggling in bed with him
- Cooking and serving him
- A very slow sensual night with him ...
My man: intelligent, well-educated, honest, generous, humorous, caring, open minded, fun, loving and romantic gentleman for a LTR. I don't expect to meet one who always says: "I'm right, you're wrong ..." because I think nobody is perfect - even myself and the one who always makes their partner upset and then says sorry but keeps doing it again and again...
I really need someone who boosts my spirits when I am feeling down, listens to my opinions and gives me advice, show me that he loves and accepts me. I will be there when he needs me, comfort him when he is feeling bad, make him feel valued and important, avoid everything that can upset him.
Ever since I was little I loved when my father touched my hair. I don't know why but just the feel of someone touching my hair is amazing.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am smart, social, and fun. I love exercise.. I am 5.3 about 120 pounds, I am divorced, I moved from Sacramento about two years ago, but I grew up in Cupertino. I graduated from Santa Clara University. I am looking to have a serious relationship with someone who is not in to games. I dont like players, I believe you should spend your energy and time in getting to know someone, we all know that it takes time and work but I the end you will ended up with a healthy and strong loving relationship.. I have two wonderful kids, boy 17 and a girl 10, if you don't have kids or if you have kids, it's ok with me. I am financially stable and my life is very balanced right now.
I believe that you need to love yourself before you love others. I like a man who takes care of himself physically, staying in shape is very important to me.
I work out two to three times per week to keep my self in shape and feel better about my self, I also coach Volleyball two times per week, I love exercise...
Smokers (not my preference) It's not too much to ask.. :-)
PS; I don't need a father for my kids, they have one,, I need someone to love ME and spend time with me :-)