Date women from United States / California / Martinez, 33 year old

Date someone special from Martinez, United States. I thought dating was suppose to be fun. Most likely if you are on here looking for a life partner, you have dealt with someone else's BS on more than one occasion. We have all made mistakes, and hope to do better the next time around. Sometimes I wonder if I have really applied what I have learned and I don't think I have. If I had, I'd probably be incredibly jaded and take on an entirely different approach. Yet still - I believe there is someone out there who won't make relationships feel like so much damn work. They require effort - but if it doesn't come easy early on, it's a no go.
I'm tired of altering myself to accommodate someone else's insecurities. I refuse to bend over backward for someone who is not willing to meet me half way. If you don't have the time or energy - don't fake it. If you are just looking for some action, don't lie about your intentions. If you don't know yourself, spend some time alone before pursuing a relationship. If you want to live the life of a twenty something and drink on every day that ends in "y" - I'm not your girl.
Let's just be real about this whole on line thing while we are at it... it doesn't matter how fun or good natured you sound. If there isn't some physical attraction, we all just turn the other cheek and not respond. Let's face it - it's awkward responding to someone who we aren't remotely attracted to. It is happening to me too, it happens to all of us - so don't think you are alone.
I highly doubt I will meet the love of my life here - today, I finally faced the realization I am more likely to win the lottery. So, in between now and the time I do meet my as-close-to-my-dream-man-as-possible, I am here - for the heck of it. I don't have to have some romantic involvement. If you are a cool person who just wants to hang out and go do fun stuff with a female without any weird tension or pressure, I'm open to that. If you are a single father and want to do fun stuff with our kids together on the weekend, I'm open to that. Life is short - and there are just as many decent people as there are sh** heads, so if you are relatively normal, like to laugh and can enjoy the simple things in life, please send me an email. This whole winking thing is lame is just too passive for me. Please let me know why you decided to respond.
I'm a pretty sweet woman ~ I just don't have anything to lose by speaking my mind.

Meet a woman from Martinez, United States. I am a person who thrives on an active lifestyle and good company. My family is very special to me and I would describe myself as a loyal and compassionate friend who will be there when needed. My reason for being on match is that I don't meet guys in my daily life at work, and figured that this is worth a shot. I am enjoying myself in the meantime, but it would be fun to date and leave myself space for someone to come into my life.
I have always ridden and owned horses. I am a professional equestrian and have worked very hard in my life to make my passion a marketable skill. I am athletic, and enjoy having an active life. Unwinding and just being chill is my thing too. I love what I do and the life I lead, but I also love to have new experiences and new adventures, making memories and funny stories along the way.
My closest friends describe me as genuine and I do have an authentic personality. People close to me always know they are getting the real me who is not hiding behind a mask of ulterior motives or any other front. I have been told that it is refreshing as well as comforting, and lends itself to trustworthiness.
I would describe myself as a generous person. I love to give, and enjoy this aspect of the holidays. I try to extendi this spirit into my daily life by being generous with my time and being available for others as a good listener.
I am looking for a person whom I can have a meaningful, passionate and close relationship with. Someone who I can count on and who can count on me. I want a best friend, lover and life partner. If you read this and feel like saying hi, I would enjoy hearing from you!

Date a soulmate from Martinez, United States. I'm here to find a match I love to laugh, I feel humor cures all. I'm easy going just a simple girl who wants a simple guy. I don't like describing myself ( who does) so if you want email me and get to know me.