Date someone special from Cupertino, United States. First and foremost a great best friend who I can share every thing with.. I can debate issues with and be safe in sharing feelings,
aspiration, fears and who can love our family as much as I do. She comes into our family in good faith. Her motives are pure and will be the woman I want to share my life with. In doing that, she gets to have the best that I can be for her. She looks at us as the better good and wants good for us both as a team..
The best thing I can really say about myself is that I am a truly NICE guy, intelligent (but not arrogant), very humble and down to earth, extremely polite, playful, loyal, very sincere, and truly care about other people's feelings at all times!! I PROMISE you won't be disappointed in developing friendship with me and seeing where it goes. I love the feeling of a sensual kiss that comes from a relationship that is built on honesty and trust. I am passionate about life and what life has to offer. I love the pleasure of giving, which yields a great potential of awareness. I do not play games with people's emotions. I have boundaries that are made up of grounded substance and I have nothing to prove, which leaves me to being me.
I really believe that laughter is medicine for the soul. I guess you could say sometimes my soul is over medicated, on the other hand,I have a vivid sense of humor! I think is very important as humor is naturally medicinal, Sharing a laugh with the person you love until you both cry or almost whiz yourselves ....
It doesn't get any better than that.
Meet men and women from Cupertino, United States. “Attractive, happy, warm, fun woman seeks guy who’s still breathing.” Just kidding. I’m a bit more discriminating than that. However, it is tough to say what makes a relationship work isn’t it? Is it compatibility or chemistry? Do we have to completely agree on politics and religion or can we just agree that we feel comfortable and happy when we’re together? By the way, did you vote for Ron Paul? Oops! I should ask that later.
What is chemistry, really? I once dumped my extra leftover chemicals in the sink of my Chem 1A lab. Since light travels faster than sound, IРІР‚в„ўm pretty sure I saw the flash before I heard the poof. In any case itРІР‚в„ўs a good thing that no one got hurt. I am not making this up.
But this is not the kind of chemistry I am talking about. Instead I am referring to feeling intrigued, comfortable, connected, alive when weРІР‚в„ўre together. We really listen to each other and it feels safe to be honest and open. We have fun together, even doing mundane or silly things. ThereРІР‚в„ўs a sense of genuine caring and affection that has the potential to grow into passion. We admire each others' strength of character and ability to meet lifeРІР‚в„ўs challenges. We have good boundaries and we accept and respect our differences and flaws. We have letters of reference from our therapists and/or sponsors. Oh, wait! I can check those later if we get serious.
Chemistry, check! Now for compatibility. Do you also like walking, the outdoors, dancing, bicycling, or golf? Hey, so do I although my performance is not always up to par. How about pot lucks, barbeques, family groups, growth groups, costume parties, board games, travel (air, land or sea), camping, conversation, movies, theater, music, beaches, mountains, museums or at least some of these things? So do I! Compatibility, check!
OK, so what more is there to know? IРІР‚в„ўm retired, I walk, I dance, I have some great friends, I have two wonderful grown children, and I want to have fun and explore the world. IРІР‚в„ўm involved in spiritual growth activities and I do volunteer work. IРІР‚в„ўm looking for a good man with whom to share lifeРІР‚в„ўs joys and sorrows.
My guy needs to be kind, sensitive, reliable, intelligent, fun-loving, accepting, spiritual, affectionate, and outgoing. YouРІР‚в„ўre aware of your feelings and you have good communication skills. YouРІР‚в„ўre willing to try new experiences. You respect my boundaries. You donРІР‚в„ўt expect me to be perfect or to always agree with you. Chemistry is important to you and we will grow in mutual respect and love.
As an aside, hereРІР‚в„ўs my favorite bumper sticker:
Love like youРІР‚в„ўve never been hurt.
Work like you donРІР‚в„ўt need the money.
Dance like nobodyРІР‚в„ўs watching.
Soooooo……What do you think? Should we explore our commonalities further?