Date men and women from United States / California / Cupertino, 43 year old

Date single man from Cupertino, United States. What if there was some kind of rulebook given to all of us when we were created – and in this rulebook, it had all those things about living a great life and giving back to the world, blah, blah, blah? I think it would definitely have this notion that we all must “earn the day,” and to do that every day. Yup. Make every day count in some impactful way (isn’t that a flash idea for a logo t-shirt?)
I believe love is the second most important choice we have to make in life. You get extra points if you can figure out what I think is even more important than love. Pretty deep, eh? Well how about this: “Every man dies, not every man lives.” Here’s another gem, “Get busy living or get busy dying.” I know, I know – now you want these to be your quotes too! ;-)
On yours truly…
I consider myself part Indian, part American, part world citizen, and all California dude.
My experiences may make me out to be some sort of a modern day Indiana Jones. I once dove into a public fountain on a dare from a friend. I caught a seagull while fishing off the coast of Florida. I had a near death experience at 75 feet depth while scuba diving. On a backpacking trip in Denali, I had a scare with a very large grizzly. I’ve had an exhilarating experience with a black rhino in South Africa, and have come within meters of a Mako shark in open water. There are other adventures experiences that we can discuss later if you are either interested, or not yet wow'ed enough…
I think I come off better on video than pics or paper. Red wine, light beer, black coffee, IMAX 3D, most any kind of music, laughing with friends & family. And sometimes they all happen on the same night. My therapist has 2 wheels and 21 gears. I absolutely kick ass at the work that I do, but that's a totally different topic for us to discuss over a quad venti 2 pump skinny vanilla latte.
On relationships…
I can keep a 3 year old entertained with a fun and engaging conversation (think Jerry Maguire) and still have a deep discussion on culture or politics with your eclectic uncle. I’m betting your family will love me.
I am super close to my family, and my kids mean the world to me. Nothing will ever change that. Period. If you feel this bothers you or feel at all threatened by what I just said, no worries dude, we probably aren’t just meant to be. Yes, I can take questions now.
I put a huge value on my friendships. Many of them have become brothers and sisters, and my very own brother and sister have become my true friends. And don’t get me started on Mom and Dad.
I’m not going use a bunch of qualifying specifications to stereotype you into what I am looking for. We are all unique, and there’s no telling what combinations can create that awesome chemistry between 2 individuals.
I feel that in relationships, some of the coolest things that I have witnessed are really old people holding hands, parents that are exceptionally skilled at the art of being patient with their kids, and how much unconditional love a person can give once they have attained true love. One of the craziest of things I still believe in is that you can look into a person’s eyes, and just know. Go figure.
Yes, I think PDA is appropriate (sometimes necessary) in the right doses. By now, you may have gathered that I don’t believe love and romance is dead in the 21st century – the fire burns bright for all of us – advice for the masses: get out there, and DO NOT SETTLE!
If you made it this far, you definitely deserve a free t-shirt – maybe one with a cool logo with a catchy quote. ;) If this felt like an easy conversation that we just had, and you feel an itch to get to know each other little more, then maybe we should continue this over a cup o’ joe, or a power smoothie - (you pick the brew, I pick the place). For now, I have to go earn my day, make an impact…
How do ya like them apples? Live strong and prosper. Peace out.

Meet people from Cupertino, United States. I am a fun, outgoing person with a wild streak. I am comfortable wearing heels, flip-flops or sneakers. My close friends describe me as "Martha Stewart's Crazy Sister" I can navigate in the kitchen on a mountain trail.

Date a woman from Cupertino, United States. Raised in Taiwan, I came to the States as a graduate student in New York and have lived in the bay areas for over 14 years. My friends usually describe me warm, open-minded, thoughtful, and intelligent. I was a journalist by training but switched to a part-time position in non-profit organization when my kids were young so I could maintain a healthy balance between work and family. I am very happy with my manager job in non-profit organization as it is rewarding as well as challenging.
I like reading and writing, have published three Chinese books and working on my fourth book. I swim regularly, like walking in the nature, enjoy music, performances, and musuems at my leisure time. I love good foods (used to write a column on restaurants in New York) spa and travel. Now I like to live a healthy life style but don't mind occasionally indulging myself in pleasures life presents to me. I also enjoy meditation and regularly practice qi-gong (like tai chi) to keep my body and mind in sync. My life goal is to keep balanced between life pleasure and spiritual growth.
I like to be around with people who are confident, generous, giving, humorous, and positive-thinking. I am looking for a passionate relationship in which we mutually attract, admire and appreciate each other.

Meet someone special from Cupertino, United States. I have two daughter (10 and 13) that play completive soccer, yes I'm a soccer mom, ewww, don't particularly like that title, so don't go there.
Anyway, I'm easy going and laid back. I love cooking, including BBQ'ing, for family and friends when time allows. Love going to movies. Enjoy going to sporting events or just to the sports bar to watch the local team play away. I do enjoy a good bottle of wine and an elegant dinners, so yes I do enjoy some of the finer things life as to offer. Been described as the girl next door but clean up damn well ;-). I am most confortable in my jeans and t-shirt, but do like getting all dolled up every now and then to change it up.
I enjoy a good sense of humor but not interested if all the jokes are gong to always be about me, trust me I laugh at myself all the time.

Date a soulmate from Cupertino, United States. I thought about copying and pasting the words to the pina colada song just to get this part over with, but it seemed like cheating ;).
Ah well...I guess some indicators are in order - I recharge by hiking and yoga. I meditate occasionally, but I'm not particularly introspective. I mostly look forward and don't dwell on the past (...unless I haven't quite dealt with the past and it creeps up on me when I am meditating). I love working, but also love down time. I hate capitalizing when I type, but other people seem to appreciate it so I try. I don't have a TV, but I do have netflix & hulu. My orchid success rate is about 50:50. And yes, I admit to reading paranormal romance novels - why dwell on reality when trying to relax? Cabernet, yes! Chardonnay, never. Open, honest, expressive, thoughtful.
I think you can reinvent yourself at any point and create the life you want to live. I have been many things...an organic farmer in Honduras, an environmental educator in California, and now I work in the medical device industry where I really feel at home. I am so grateful for the full life I have led, for the people in my life who have challenged me, for my son who continues to challenge me to be the best person I can be. I feel so blessed to have such amazing friends and family.
I am looking for...a date. Fun, flirting, appreciation, more(?) - yes, all that. Someone who's self sufficient - takes care of business, but not obsessed with every detail. Attentive (I try to be). Likes kids (FYI: I love my son (almost 12) more than life, much to his dismay). Outdoor fun a must...cleans up good, not a slave to fashion, but probably no socks with sandals, if that helps.
Mutual appreciation is a must. Self awareness, as well. I think we all have stuff at this point in our lives - some things we are working on and others that probably aren't going to change at this point. A good fit...let's try for that.