Date single man from Ojai, United States. If I could accurately describe my ideal match, perhaps I would not be here. I guess what I have learned in life is that you sometimes find love where you least expect. So it's best not to have preconceived notions of perfection. Especially when it comes to people, sometimes what you think you want is not what you really need. Having lived as many years in Asia as I have lived in the US, I have recently relocated to California (where I am from originally). I am not looking for lots of dates--I don't have the time! But I am looking for a social life to begin with, and someone to enjoy life with for the long term if possible. Oh, and please note that I am a fully capable single dad, which means I am not looking for a step-mom to take over parenting duties. I am looking for someone who will nurture my soul and for whom I can do the same. Having said that, I do have a child, so my match would have to understand that and appreciate him--he's actually quite a charmer. Hope to hear from you.