Date someone special from Santa Rosa, United States. I am described as unique, sensitive, caring. Not hard on the eyes. Look for the best in everyone and everything. Make people "guffaw" laugh! Very supportive, focused, loyal to my commitments. Can always be counted on to be there for people when I can help in any way. Trustworthy, silly, realize that wrinkles only go where the smiles have been. Knowing that yesterday's over my shoulder so I can't look back there too long. There's just too much to see waiting in front of me I know that I just can't go wrong! I'm growing older, but not up! My joy of wonder and new experiences walk right along with me. "Sometimes the best map will not guide us. We can't see what's round the bend. Sometimes the road leads through dark places. Sometimes the darkness is our friend." I practice daily Zazen meditation to maintain the wholeness / balance with myself and the universe. No birth / no death / no coming / no going / no not the same / no not different / no being / no non-being. I consciously avoid greed, anger, and ignorance. I realize that awakening and delusion are two sides of the same coin: both need each other to manifest. I strive to remember to remember non-duality / ego driven modes. My fiancee passed away 9 months ago she always wanted me to set my course & be open to happiness & love again. So I'm finally opening to "Let Go Let God" open new possibilities for me. When we look, nothing arises. When we let go, we open to new possibilities... I have not "officially" become a member yet. I think I'm finally leaning towards that direction so I can communicate with "matches'. This "winking" is getting old there is no further way of reaching out to each other, so that's my next step. Coming soon. I hope to engage in my mutual winks & start the process of contacting women to learn more about you, hopefully the same will hold true for you. I realize "winking" until I become a full-fledged, card carrying member pales by comparison to emails & more solid contact, so I'm adding more of my perceived attributes since this is such a limited venue in trying to describe oneself. I play from strength. I have a lot of love & warmth in me to share. Intelligence. Patience. Composure. Cheerfulness. Honesty. Passion. Gratefulness. Fun / Happiness. I make a difference & contribute. Always learning & growing. Achieving & being the best I can be in each moment. Dedicated to my son Noah. My dear friends & family & to the one I love & share the journey together with. Like the saying goes: "When you're ready to jump, the net will appear" I'm ready to let go & jump! I'm amazed & impressed if you actually read all this. It seems like after awhile, these become variations on a theme. Oh yeah, minor technicalities & total transparency on my part. Disclaimer: If looks are important (& we generally first check those aspects out first), I shave my head to stay cool & for my Buddhist leanings, so you could at this juncture "label" me bald as a result. So if ya need a Sampson type, I'll need to let my hair grow out again! I hope most of you see into the soul & heart essence of a person over external features? If not, I understand. & I'm looking for a woman who appreciates a man for who & what he is over trophy looks. Jeeze, I've said too much. I haven't said enough! Hopefully all that I have shared might have sparked some resonance with you. If not, I wish you nothing but the best & truly hope you find delightful happiness & fulfillment in life!
Meet single man from Santa Rosa, United States. energetic,friendly,artistic,healthy,outgoing,risqu
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Energy to burn on the Dance floor. Watch out, or you might have fun with a surprize move. Or a sip of fermented Grape? Check out some weird art or a walk through Luther Burbank. Holding hands on the beach with some fresh fish BBQ. Rollin around in the wet grass, naked. The thought of two people hand in hand.
Date people from Santa Rosa, United States. I am a man who is 61 years old. I am 5'11". I have taken up bicycling about a year or two ago and now am riding, or attempting to ride, 10-12 miles 3-5X per week. It's wonderful. My preferred ride is in the vicinity of the Dry Creek General Store. I am hoping to find someone to ride with me as part of a growing relationship.
I am a scientist with Medtronic working presently on the new transcatheter valve for treating aortic stenosis. Don't worry if you don't understand what this means - one of my better traits is as a teacher. I'm quite good at it. I hold graduate degrees from UC Berkeley and MIT. I love my job at the moment. Next week may be different....
I have two spectacular sons aged 24 and 27. The younger has recently announced his intention to wed the girl of his dreams. I feel good about this but it does in fact represent a certain point in life - that being I've definitely entered the "golden" years of life. My oldest son is starting his own social network enterprise designed to facilitate communication between college alumni and prospective students. I seek advise routinely from my sons. I hope over the years perhaps I've helped them along the way too. They are the high points of my life.
A Self Summary:
I'm pretty good at being a dad. Also I seem to do well at science and engineering. I can read people pretty well too. I was a child of the 60's and spent two tours in Vietnam. I don't know what else to say about that. Despite barely getting through high school, I managed to get engineering degrees from Berkeley and MIT so I guess some folks think I'm successful. Some losses in life like we all have I suppose but want to move on now.
What I'm Doing with My Life:
Learning how to live again and enjoy life. It's been a long time since I've done that. I have just taken up sea kayaking and am really enjoying that. I do enjoy bike riding - have a 26 year old Specialized and love riding it. My sons are my joy right now in life but I would like to find a woman to share my life with.
I'm Good At:
Well, this is difficult but I guess I'm pretty good at being a dad. Also I seem to do well at science and engineering. I can read people pretty well too. I don't believe we are people having spiritual experiences, rather I believe we're spiritual beings having human experiences. Makes life make a lot more sense - don't you think?
Favorite Stuff:
I spend a lot of time at work reading technical papers, so I have to admit I really enjoy mindless bestsellers - pretty much the same with movies. My son burned a couple CD's for me some years ago of my favorite songs (he and his brother are the best kids on earth - sorry ladies.). The songs were mainly from the 60's-70's and included Led Zep Stairway; Bobby Darrin Mack the Knife, Beach Boys, some James Taylor, Ton Loc (yeah funky cold medina - what a great song). I've recently started eating better too.
Meet men and women from Santa Rosa, United States. I grew up in Beautiful Sonoma County California...And raised my family here...I'm single now and I would like to meet a man who completes me...The man I've waited for all my life...The One who appreciates the small things, like taking walks on the beach...Or just sitting out under the stars...When your with the right person it doesn't matter what we're doing.Life can be beautiful with just holding hands.
I enjoy my time with the outdoors...When it's warm I garden and remodel...In the winter I like a warm fire...And baking...I love intertaining...Of course having good food and wine welcome lasting memories with loved ones...
My friends would probably say I'm honest and a good listener...I can say that I'm soft-spoken...I always try to treat people the way I would want to be treated. I'm not one who likes conflict...I thrive at staying happy and keeping the positive people in my life.
I believe that when you are truly present and happy with someone...You can feel their heart and the closeness...Yes I'm looking for that one man that wants to settle down and be there...I know he must be out there somewhere. Love Peace
Date a soulmate from Santa Rosa, United States. educated and high energy looking for someone with a sense of humor and intelligent. Someone who works hard, plays hard, and can stop to smell the roses. Someone with life experience who is not afraid of change or new situations.
Meet people from California, United States. Care about our World? Progressive politics? Love Humor? Live in Sonoma County? Emotionally Healthy? Me too...
Does this move you: "Something deep in the human heart wants beauty, love and relatedness more than it wants war, destruction and violence." Then let's hang out for awhile. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could connect around our deepest, heart-felt desires about ourselves, our family and friends and our world??
How did we meet? Perhaps I spotted you in a lush public garden in Vienna, entranced in a book, sitting before a streaming water fountain adorned with tall marble sculptures of Psyche and Eros in embrace. I would have said something that made you laugh and caught your attention and we struck up a conversation that lasted hours. We met the next morning at the train station, our backpacks slung over our shoulders, traveling first on a large passenger liner, then on a decades-old rickety train wheezing its way up into the mountainous Alps to a boat dock. The little ferry took us to a tiny Austrian town carved into a slope of mountain rock. For days we walked and talked, and walked not talking, and every so often, and only for a few moments at a time, we gasped as white-blue light rays broke through the clouds and reached directly from the sun to play across the water's face in an image straight out of a Renaissance painting depicting divinity streaming from the heavens. And in the middle of one night, we were both moved to tears at our great good fortune.
I appreciate humor, politics, mind-body medicine, Jon Stewart, Steven Colbert, Francis Weller, Amy Goodman, Bill Moyers, Jim Gordon, Joseph Campbell, Carl Jung, Jane Goodall, KPFA, KQED, photography, travel, optimism, compassion, passion, intimacy, trust, humor, humor, home, science, poetry, sharing, emotional intelligence and emotional adulthood, resilience, kindness, integrity, subtleties, animals, books, 'Planet Earth,' 'Life,' 'Good Night and Good Luck,' 'Life Aquatic,' 'Smartest Guys In The Room,' 'Iron Man,' 'March of the Penguins,' 'An Inconvenient Truth,' 'Apollo 13,' beauty, wild rain storms, gentleness, connection, collaboration, country quiet, nature and nurture, meditation, mythology, midnight, metaphor, vision, touch, pleasure, rhythm, fire. Eros, then resting together as peace saturates our bones.
A real source of joy in my life is my adult daughter. I am happy that she is caring, compassionate, smart, well educated, knowledgeable about our world, sweet, funny, independent, and living a good life.
I am outraged by military invasion and occupation, polluters, CoinOp Congress, and anybody blowing anybody up.
I’m interested in feeling hopeful; conflict resolution; building friendships; caring for our little oasis in space; solar and wind energy; organic and sustainable agriculture; clean water; healthy healthcare; doing some good in our world; nurturing all our kids with kindness; and as much laughter as possible. I have traveled to fifteen countries and I've made friends in every one. I'd like to travel to fifteen more. Life is short. Let's live in the fullest, richest, most creative way we possibly can. It's possible that we could build a deeply satisfying life together with warmth, intelligence, speaking truth, playfulness, physical and emotional passion, and lots of laughter. Your friends will love me. We can drop by Whole Foods deli and come home to a glass of wine and a peaceful dinner to de-amp from the day. We can work together to clear leaves from the rain gutters and make the whole thing fun. We can share quirky radio (“This American Life”) and quirky films (“Fast, Cheap and Out of Control”). We’re both looking toward building a decades-long relationship. Monogamy is essential to both of us, as is financial stability.
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Date a woman from California, United States. I am a fun outgoing athletic woman looking for similar interest in man. Like to take walks, dance, swim, go on trips, explore new experiences. Like time with girlfriends and like to volunteer. Love my job and California. Looking to meet men in my age range with similar interests for friendship and....
Meet someone special from California, United States. Hello, I am a fun loving, energetic person who loves to laugh. I love my children who are the lights of my life and my dogs. I greatly enjoy gardening, cooking, camping, going to the beach, etc. I love to dress up and go out to dinner or enjoy a relaxing day of wine tasting. In contrast, I am equally as happy going to the local diner. My favorite option would be some one to create memorable meals with. I am a cowgirl at heart......I had a horse for 27 years.......and am often in jeans and cowboy boots. In contrast I don't dare tell you how many heels I have as I was professional with a desire to style. I am semi retired and interested in a loving, kind, manly man who would be interested in take on life's next adventure.
Date men and women from California, United States. ...let's get to know each other and then see what develops. I've been a widow for nine years and enjoy my life as it is now; however, I'm also ready to meet a man with the hope of our making that connection which will add another dimension to both our lives, one that we can explore together. Currently not an active member but I do check out this site occasionally. If a person's profile and "About Me & Who I'm Looking For" sparks my interest, I may consider reactivating my membership.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am very spiritually centered and into truth, but zen about life and enjoying life and the world in fun and productive ways. I am caring and giving, creative in this area and other areas, love laughing and finding the humor in life. Want to continue to grow as a person, which includes all sorts of fun exploration (not mainly the "oh no, not another learning experience" kind of growth - that can come along from time to time without looking for more). Other info: I find a natural high is the highest and get there with very healthy diet and exercise, this makes me a very young 60 in spirit, looks and health. I am open to arts and activities from all sorts of cultures and genres, love to be out in nature and to travel when possible, local and distance. Honesty, good core values and open mindedness are important to me. By the way, my picture was taken when I was very tired from moving, for a job related website