Date men from United States / California / Loma Linda, 62 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I consider myself to be intelligent, clever, supportive and generous. I have an open mind with a good sense of humor as told by my staff and colleagues. I will provide references and documentation if interested. I do not take myself too serious. My faults are my strengths overplayed. So, someone can describe me as being cavalier, for not taking some things too seriously. I have all my hair and were 34 pants. I am 5ft 7, 59 and weigh about 170. I dress professionally. I like being honest.
I want great conversation and someone that I can rely in the various gifts of life. I enjoy meeting and listening people. The human spirit continues to amaze me. I, as most people, want a relationship where we both give attention, time, consistent and are willing to compromise. I have read several profiles and found that everyone is looking for “chemistry”. I really do not know what it means; if I had chemistry I would not be posting profile on match.com and would still be in that relationship. I have found women that I enjoyed their company, but they did not enjoy my. I also have meet women that enjoy my company but I did not enjoy theirs. There are two axioms “birds of a feather flock together" or "opposites attract" which is true?
I do not want to sound superficial, but I did end a relationship based on how a women treated the hired people at a restaurant. She was very condensing and aloof to the hired help. She sounded great in her profile and a very accomplished woman, her personality was different in terms of treating people. I try and treat people with respect.