Date men from United States / California / Blackhawk, 62 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Please read first -
If you are described as Super Sweet, Sexy, Smart and Hot .. keep reading :-)
Who I am looking for - If you are young at heart, spiritual, dynamic and fun loving with high libdo, slender, pretty, fit, classy, educated, warm, outgoing, sensitive, spiritual, intouch with emotions and feelings and communicates with no drama, intelligent, pretty, confident, looking for someone to complete them as a life partner. Who also enjoys good films, fine dinning, the arts, travel, shopping, homelife, famliy etc. and you are available emotionaly and have time to date - Then say hello :-)! If you are 5 years or more older than me you are same age as my stepmom and I can't go there !
About me - I am a real, fun, sensitive, outgoing guy, successful alpha male working in IT for Fortune 100 as Sr Mgr, loves life, into intimacy (emotional and physical - when time is right) into one to one (no games) relationship with major chemisty and communication. I like sports, working out, theater, movies, music, sports, travel, arts, fine dining, eathing healhly and green and great wines, romance and more...
At this point at minimum looking for the following
- Chemistry
- Great Communicaiton
- Someone with Intelligence & charm
- Emotional Stability - no drama
- Someone who is happy with themselves
- Someone that likes to laugh a lot
- Out of box thinker
- into fitness
- Great Friend
- Advenure Partner
- Romatic Partner
- Lover - high libdo - no sexual dysfunction
- Must have time to see each other couple of times a week and weekends away if chemistry.
Open to suggestions :-)
Friendship first
Please if you are a financial disaster, dating me isn't going fix that :-)