Date men and women from United States / California / El Cajon, 57 year old

Date single man from California, United States. About me - Open, honest and considerate of others. I've never met a dog I didn't like. A dog is an admirable creature - keen of breed and steadfast to purpose. I fancy myself with similar qualities (short of shoving my nose in your crotch when greeting). I hold my faith and belief closely. I'll share them with others who are willing to share theirs with me. I don't believe there is any faith, belief or religion more right then another. There are only differences in understanding what we all have in common. And hope for in living. Great things come from simple gestures. Things acquired, fame, success, fortune, are eventually lost. Things given, compassion, understanding, encouragement, remain forever. It's not what we achieve or accomplish that matters most even though each of us might contribute and enrich the world with talent, happiness or delight. It seems to me how we touch and change the lives of others ensures our greatness. Though I think I know a lot of things, I know I don't know enough yet to consider my learning and living complete. I hold the love of my daughter so my greatest achievement may have been met... but then again, she needs new tires on her car. I certainly ain't done having snacks and naps.
About you - Be who you are. It takes a lot of courage to just be who you are. I'll admire that quality in you greater then all others you may possess. Relish your contradictions and perceptions and share them with me. Stand your ground and I will yield to it. Fight with your mind and love with your heart. Risk getting messy. Clean up can be fun too. Draw outside the lines and I'll make certain you'll always have paper and a box of 64 crayons. Risk being foolish. Rally to be sincere. Know what you want and be happy with what you get. And DON'T ask me what I'm getting you for Christmas because I'll lie.
About Match - I'm not a paying member. So responding to me here won’t reach me. Why do I even have a profile? Well, because I'm hopeful that this economy will change and I can afford to pursue what experience has taught me is possible on here. Until then I hope you take my clicking you as a FAVORITE as a simple compliment. Something that you wrote has caught my attention. How curious are you to find out? How clever am I to provide you a way to ask? I can dig the riddle of these two notions. So it is a riddle I offer here. IKNDIGT and I hope you can get it. You can if you add the at and bow to those good folks over at cox on the other side of this net. I hope to hear from you. With some dialogue, who knows what comes next? I certainly don't. But I'm curious. Are you?

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Im looking for a mate, not just a date... someone to share the days and nights of our lives.. a woman of Christian faith with a sense of humor who chooses to be happy, to forgive, to laugh, and with compassion for the less fortunate. We both enjoy holding hands, a hug, and snuggling. We like to share what we have in common, but we also like having our own independent interests. We can agree to disagree, and we're quick to say "Im sorry" or accept an apology. We have friendship based on communication and respect. We're best friends, not just lovers.
I grew up in a southwest farm town so Im more of dirt guy with no particular interest in the ocean, beach, or water activities. But I love the mild climate here. Family is very important to me, and Im very close to mine. I enjoy personal interaction and engaging conversation. I appreciate simple pleasures and simple treasures. For me, our everyday home life with you the ultimate romance.
Ive always enjoyed all aspects of music, and Ive played the drums as a hobby since childhood. I have a very wide variety of music, but I like progressive and hard rock, prog jazz, blues, and Christian rock most. Fav praise songs Amazing Grace, In Christ Alone.
But wait, there's more! I open doors and give up seats for women. I always leave the toilet seat down. Im easy going, and love to laugh. TV favs are History, DOC, SciFi, PBS, TNT, and Speed. I shower morning and night. I cannot handle tantrums, excessive tats, facial piercing, rap music, or abusive language. I usually prefer DVDs over movie theaters. I dont have a lot of money, but I dont care. I think physical intimacy is important in a sincere relationship, not just in marriage. I don't have a hairy back. Would you care to slow dance in the kitchen while dinner cooks? I think less make-up is more attractive than too much. I like 75-85 deg temps. Im looking for lasting chemistry, not instant chemistry. I prefer small venues (Humphrey's) for live music/concerts. If you have a problem trusting men because you've been burned, Im not a good match. Camping?..I think a 2-3 star hotel is roughing it. I like having different colognes to choose from. I give 10 percent of monthly income to charities/church. I love NM chile. I think 3-5 emails is enough to see if there is interest and compatibility, after that, I'll want to use the phone. Actually, I dont have a hairy front either. Got my first tattoo 2 years ago. Outside of work, I prefer wearing sandals or being barefoot at home. I would feel insecure with a taller woman. I also cannot handle pets at the table, in the front seat of cars, or in the bed...(not into 3-somes with animals). I'd like to elope if I marry. I have one drink every night. My views are mostly traditional and conservative, but I have exceptions. I leave the TV on for background noise. I wish German chocolate cake was considered a food group. WHEW!
CAN YOU RELATE..
Seems a lot of profiles emphasize carefree lifestyles and adventurous vacations. Im more interested in the other 330-days per year of everyday life. Like when you catch a cold, when I need to shave, or when you're not wearing make-up.. when there's dirty clothes, dishes, floors, and cars.. when we disagree.. when we watch TV, go to church or grocery shopping.. birthdays, relatives, budgets, work, and traffic. Those are times for us to experience friendship, romance, laughter, and understanding. Those are times that seem to matter later on.
If you're thinking "no wonder he isnt married", Im probably not your type. But if we have similar views on core values like integrity, character, faith, honesty... if you can appreciate compatible differences that complement each other and encourage personal growth... then let me know! Thanks for reading my profile. (Note-pics are dated in margin or caption).
PS-You must have honest pics displayed, be close to age limits, and be within 50mi of SD.

Date men and women from California, United States. I am a single man looking for a woman that is sure about herself. I like being in the company a understanding woman. Easy going and I am not afraid to express my thoughts. I live alone and I like going to different clubs to meet people.

Meet a man from California, United States. I am successful businessman. I love people and socialize a lot. I love to travel and enjoy cooking, music and watching movies. I want my companion to be more or less have similar interests and should not be jealous person.

Date someone special from California, United States. well as described earlier in part im very very passionate intimate romantic funny caring guinuine great sense of humor love people pets life and laughter i enjoy writing music songs and performing them i also do massage therpy and healing technics its easier to stay well than it is to get well.love giving and recieving massage love intimacy and passion kissing holding hands and public affection as well as private love exploring and trying new things very open minded i enjoy most all sports like to cook and play pool bowling golf karaoke fishing walks dancing movies star gazing gardening karate working out inand out of the gym hehehe am possitive hate being around negitive people or drama and draining people love easy going people who are more submissive than dominate like comedy si fi adventure and game shows i am working on my 3rd music c,d and love to help children and adults with disabilities and anamals
that are neglected i have done alot of work for them in the past animal fire and rescue i am clean drug and desease free and am looking for th same in my mate or partner.i am looking for a long term to marriage relationship but the person must be easy going and submissive and honest kind hearted faithfull loyal and loving and must b open minded to try new things in and out of the bedroomi am greatfull for life love and laughter and music and most of all for my god who has helped me thru many things in my life although i dont feel ihave to go to chuch everysunday to worship him and am on the more partying side of things he is still my king if we have not god in our lives we have nothing my mate also must be on the more athletic to slim or a few extra pounds longgg hair is a definate plus and non smoker casual social drinker like all foods spice mexican thai foods play pool dance golf sing and have a great personalityhonesty faithfull passionate carig fun witty very loyaland comittedmovies the beach nature walks concerts casinos like to be spoiled and to spoil me as well.

Meet people from California, United States. Let's see, this is always so difficult. I am a very easy going person. I'm respectful of others. My close friends would describe me as kind and generous. I like to have fun and get out to enjoy life and each day. I like going to the beach, Balboa Park (museums, plays, etc.). I enjoy many types of movies, going to concerts, spending time with friends, or just staying at home gardening, watching movies while snuggling up with my partner. I love seeing the joy that a simple thoughtful act can bring to others. I want someone who appreciates that as well. I am a very giving person. I take care of those I feel strongly about because I want to, not because I expect something in return.
I'm looking for my mate to be spiritual and attractive (to me anyway). I'm looking for a caring, understanding woman who wants a man to care for her as much as I care for her.
A great first date would be going to dinner together while sipping some nice cabernet as we get to know each other better. I wouldn't want to spend time seeing a movie at first as we would just be sitting there, staring at the movie screen. Can't get to know each other that way! Just want to be somewhere comfortable so we could let our guard down, have a little fun and maybe get the butterflies, ya know!

Date single man from El Cajon, United States. What an amazing ride this journey has been so far and today I clearly see and appreciate the path I’m on. For me there are no regrets. I've enjoyed being a business owner for over thirty years and appreciate how fortunate we are living in this paradise we call San Diego!
Being physically fit, I enjoy an active life style. Activities such as racquetball, running, road biking and snowboarding are just a few fun things I love to do. But when I’m not working out in the gym or outside playing sports you will probably find me at the local antique shop looking for the next great bargain or maybe in my kitchen with a glass of fine red wine teaching myself how to be a better cook! Snuggling on the sofa with that special someone, mix in a big bowl of popcorn and a dvd..voila`...you have one of my favorite recipes for a fun evening.
My family is very important to me. I'm very fortunate to be blessed with five older children and a beautiful granddaughter. They always provide me with great joy and astonishment!
My musical taste runs the gambit, anything from the Doors to Sinatra, sorry no RAP! I love live concerts...has anyone been to Humphrey’s? Great venue!
I'm looking for a woman that's smart, warm and affectionate. A good communicator that is conscientious, honest and has her eye on similar goals. A playful gal with a great sense of humor, who's looking for a man to spend time with in laughter and in romance...good kissing required;). One who can relax, have fun and enjoy the journey.
Finding that special someone I admire and adore and who can admire and adore me is why I joined this club. I have a gentle heart and would love to share it with someone special.

Meet a soulmate from El Cajon, United States. Now that I'm retired looking to see what the other half of my life brings. Like to do some traveling, camping, hiking and see some new sites. I would rather tell you about myself in person. Send me an e-mail we can get together and talk.

Date men and women from El Cajon, United States. My life and what I'm looking for. I can tell you what I know for sure about myself.
I'm honest; I have integrity and values. I am very caring and I have a lot of love to give to a woman who knows how to receive and cherish love. I like lively debates but I understand how to compromise and I know how to agree to disagree. I'm open for change in my life as long as it’s in a positive direction. I maintain a healthy lifestyle and workout at the gym. I believe there has to be a chemistry and I still believe in romance. I have a good job and great friends. I'm very loyal to friends and family. I like meeting new people and enjoy good conversation. I like to get to know people and what makes them tick.. I enjoy life's simple pleasures.. I have a belief in doing what is right for myself and others in my life, not what is expected or convenient
Here's what I'm looking for in a relationship,
I'm looking for a woman that wants to build a friendship first and then let it develop as time goes on. You should have a good soul and heart. Laughter and good sense of humor are a must. You don't take life too seriously and are able to laugh at yourself. Honesty and trust are very important to me in a relationship. I'm looking for a woman who enjoys what a relationship has to offer.
My best friend told me about a 2 hour kiss she once had, she said it was one of the most romantic times of her life.
I believe in that kind of romance? Do you??
If there’s one Angel left out there, one that is looking for a relationship built on friendship, respect, honesty and romance, then you’re the one I want to hear from.
Please No Winks – let’s communicate.. : )

Meet a man from El Cajon, United States. Hi, and thanks for reading my profile. I'm retired military( Air Force), been around a bit. Germany, Okinawa Japan, Phillipines, Korea, and a few states as well. I like movies, action, sci fi, adventure, comedy. I like bowling, pool, and a few card games. I don't smoke and rarely drink. I do like to watch sports. I pretty recently started going to church after a LONG absence and am SO much better for it.