Date men and women from United States / California / Pacific Palisades, 57 year old

Date people from Pacific Palisades, United States. I am not a player, or a taker.
I am extremely monoagamous. I date very infrequently, and when I meet the right woman I stay put. I am fortunate in life to say that I am emotionally and fianancially secure. I know how to have fun and enjoy life, and I am looking for a wonderful woman who wants to share all our common experiences. I consider myself attractive inside and out, and would like to meet someone who has similar qualities. I live in Pacific Palisades in a wonderful home. If you want to get on a plane and go to Tahiti........I am ready, or if you just want to make dinner and watch a movie at home near the fireplace, that is fine too. You bring the movie, I will make the dinner and clean up also.

Meet a soulmate from Pacific Palisades, United States. I am naturally curious about life and respect people who want to continue to grow and learn new things.
I was married once, to a HS sweetheart, and together we had two sons who are now in their 20s. they inherited her brains, and my humor and since you wouldn't otherwise know it, that's a good combination.
The five qualities in a person to which I am most often drawn are Kindness, Playfulness, Passion, Humor and Intellect... in no particular order. Well perhaps Kindness would always be first so maybe there is an order.
i do not believe in soulmates - that idea that somewhere out there is that one person who is just waiting to be found. I think there are a lot of people with whom we could be blissfully happy as long as there are a few fundamental bases covered. i do believe that enduring couples are each other's best friends. it's the ability to adapt together that makes sustaining relationships.

Date people from Pacific Palisades, United States. Ok- I am a shrink, but don't hold it against me. Besides most of my shrinking (really executive development and coaching) is done with management in companies. I do the corporate thing well, but I also do just as well in jeans (I hope you agree). I love to laugh (but no groaners please!), and I feel- and look, so I'm told, quite young.
From Michigan, then Philly, then got smart and came out to California in 1983. I travel a bit for my work, and like living by the water. Love travel, many forms of entertainment, reading, sleeping in sometimes.
I have learned that it is important for me for the man to have a good head as well as a good heart. Has a fundamentally positive view of life, yet has been through enough hardships to know how to turn them around (or try all they can to do so). Open to growth through relationship and working through difficult conversations (and I promise to not be your therapist). If you have kids (and I hope you do), I think that's wonderful. Especially important- loves family, friends, travel, the water, theater, movies and entertainment, and socializing, while at the same time can enjoy a quiet evening at home cuddling. I really love to cuddle, when it is the right guy.