Date a man from United States. UPDATE: My membership expired 4/4/12. It's scary how fast a year can pass with no relationship developing. I want one. But I really don't think may women I've dated do. Most are still posted and available; some for several years. While I'm looking to pair up permanently with a great woman possessing some common interests, life on my own is busy at the moment. I'm spending a lot of time tending to important obligations; and also at the gym changing my fitness. I may return. I may not. I haven't decided.
I live in Agoura Hills, inside L.A. County, near Ventura County. I'm an Irish Catholic in search of fun and marriage. I'm a committed father to a sweet married daughter age 25; an interested/sympathetic brother and uncle within a close fun-loving often in-touch family; an ambitious self-employed man with integrity; doing ok; in constant pursuit of advancement; a stable townhouse owner; an active athletic guy who enjoys the gym, golf, all sports and the outdoors; a helpful long-time friend to many; a clean cut guy who stays positive and has goals; tries to be neat and organized; an imperfect but decent man who knows where he's headed, plans to achieve more than he has and hopes to find a female "partner" to enjoy and share the ride; simple but intelligent; discerning; no-nonsense but compassionate; listens; keeps promises to himself and others; tries to stay humble and be the best he can be; a steady work in progress.
The lady I'm looking for will fit my eye as I will hers. She knows her own mind because she's decided what she wants. She's completely over all past relationships and ready for something great and permanent. She wants a highly prioritized relationship leading to marriage. She's fun, classy, smart and responsible. There's truth in her intentions and words; honesty and appeal in her smile. She shares some of my interests. She'll recognize my imperfection but see my quality; as I will hers. She'll learn my few "buttons" while I'm learning hers and we'll take care of each other by not pushing them because that's what bright and loving people do. She'll help me. I'll help her. She'll be my everyday family and I'll be hers. We'll be friends/partners in every way; decide what we want; then make it happen. Together, we'll be our best and make no more excuses. Years from now, we'll look back at our life together, look at each other, then quietly smile. We'll leave a legacy built on commitment and love.
Meet someone special from United States. Describing myself challenges me to look hard at who I am. Things keep changing so I try to evolve along with the changes and hopefully, I am a new and improved model of my previous self. It's been an adjustment for me to live outside a tight family nucleus but was bound to happen even if the marriage had survived -- kids grow up! Iv'e discovered that I really like living alone but would give it up in a heart beat for the right room-mate or my 15 year old daughter full time.
I stay fit and work hard. Here are some stereotypes that might describe me --
A dog person
sports fan
family guy
Adventurer (I love to explore)
right brained
I good partner for me would be an independent woman that enjoys family (mine and yours). I don't expect to find my "sole mate" in a 50 mile radius from where I currently live but do believe there are ladies out there with enough common interests to at least develop a meaningful relationship. I think expectations can be very hard on a relationship. I am a big fan of letting a relationship grow in an organic way, whichever direction that may be. Laughing and joking is a big part of my personality and I can get sarcastic -- in a good way.
More when we meet. I'm sure you will not be disappointed.
Date a soulmate from United States. My life is in a wonderful place and I'm fortunate to have lived a rich life and am grateful for every experience.
After raising two great kids, it's now time for me to find that special woman who makes each day that much more exciting, fulfilling, and wonderful. Important to me is warmth, sincerity, and honesty in all communication... with a passion for life, love, and for the opportunities that arrive with each new day. Laughter, joy, ease of being in one's own skin, and the almost child-like curiosity to learn and explore new ideas and activities, are qualities I'd like to find in a woman. I am looking for a serious long term committed relationship.
I've been fortunate to have worked and lived overseas, both in Europe and in Japan... love to travel and embrace the broadening of boundaries and opportunities for magical new experiences that exist around every corner. Would love to find a woman who also enjoys the excitement of travel. Closer to home, the beach has always been magical, sunsets, or a great glass of wine in front of a fire on a rainy night... so many moments to share with the right woman.
If you are present-focused, passionate, adventurous, and appreciate the arts ... Comfortable being "you" anywhere at anytime, then we're likely on the same page.
"Beauty comes from the presence, but those of us in bodies must walk in a garden to feel it" ... Rumi
Meet men and women from United States. I am originally from the east coast so a sense of humor and the quest for a perfect cheese steak, pizza and chinese food are paramount in my life. I feel very fortunate to be living in this amazing southern california climate. I wake up every day and smile. There are so many things to do out here. Sports, hollywood bowl, trying new restaurants, walking, bike riding, tennis, golf and the beach are all great but they are that much better as a couple. Friends and family are very important to me.I am very young for my age ~ a big kid at heart. So I am looking for the long term and hoping to find a spontaneous up beat funny cute partner that I can share my life with.
Date people from United States. What you’ll find in me…
I like country, jazz, rock & roll, Bocelli is a favorite, it just depends on what I’m doing. I was just as comfortable wearing Versace and going to the Oscars (such an amazing experience!) as I was wearing jeans and cowboy boots and exploring Manhattan. I can hold my own in the board room, but love to be barefoot in the kitchen or my garden. I love to entertain! I’m feminine and girlie but not frilly or fragile. I’m not particularly intelligent but I’m pretty smart. I’m affectionate, fiercely loyal, passionate, adventurous, can be serious when I need to be and love to be silly as often as possible. Life is short and meant to be thoroughly embraced and enjoyed! I love to putter around the house and work on DIY projects. Yep – I have my own tool box and a Home Depot card! (Don’t you just love their rental department?) I’m growing my first vegetable garden and enjoy the results. I’m an earlier riser (5 am) and love the quiet before the rest of the world wakes up. Bubble baths are one of my favorite ways to unwind… with candles, Bocelli and a glass of wine. I love to dance and sing while puttering around the house – even though I’m terrible at both.
I am truly blessed to work for such a worthy cause (13 yrs). Knowing that at the end of the day, weРІР‚в„ўve made a difference in the lives of families whom struggle with issues, which are beyond my comprehension, is so rewarding. ItРІР‚в„ўs a non-profit and IРІР‚в„ўm the director over our marketing and development efforts.
Did I mention I’m really affectionate? A great bear hug – bring it on. I love to hold hands and cuddle up on the sofa. And kissing, wow, a kiss tells it all. Whether it’s a good morning kiss, a sneak up behind me and give me a kiss on the cheek or a make-my-knees-go-weak kiss, I think kissing is incredibly sexy.
What am I looking for in a relationship? Well, someone who I can be totally comfortable with and who will embrace my silliness. (My daughter thinks it’s hilarious that I dance to the beat of the washing machine.) I dream of starting the day off with “ I miss you too much” kiss the moment we woke up. Lazy Sunday mornings with coffee and the paper in bed or on the patio, I’ll get the first cup and you can get the second. Then I’d put your on dress shirt and make breakfast/brunch, with your help of course. Long moments of quiet kisses and looking to each other’s eyes can happen at any given moment. Go ahead – take my breath away. Many spontaneous hugs are also welcome. After work we’d talk over the events of the day as we shared a glass of wine while I rubbed your feet. And some days you’d rub mine.
I was told by a friend of mine that I’m “a man’s women.” I don’t really know what that means, but if you do and you’re interested… let’s chat.
What I’m looking for in you…
I’m looking for a guy who is self confident in his successes but not arrogant. Kind, compassionate, generous, affectionate and fun to hang around with are also qualities that I’m looking for; someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously and has a healthy sense of humor. Someone who will cuddle up and watch old movies on the rare rainy day but likes to be on the move most of the time. Not looking for someone who is hyper – but a couch potato simply won’t do. Someone who is protective but not possessive, one who knows who they are, is tender hearted, who doesn’t hesitate to help others, someone who also likes hugs and kisses. I want a love to do stuff with, live life with; walks in the rain (grew up in Seattle, LOVE rain/storms), drives up the coast, movies, poker games, quiet meals at home or out with friends/family. Don’t mind alone time, but don’t like being lonely. I want a partner in life not a roommate.
For inquiring minds that want to know about my status of being separated right now – it’s happening, not final yet, and was over years ago. Kids: 1 gone, 1 home, 1 part time. More information available upon request.
Only So Cal guys need respon
Meet a woman from Agoura Hills, United States. Here's hoping my Soulmate has a beach house!
Having been single the past several years, I have decided to search this site to see who's out there! I am looking to meet a new friend, lover and companion! I've raised my two sons alone. Both are wonderful men and best friends. Each have formed their own lives, so now It's time I do the same! I have two beautiful Grand-dogs, Golden Lab and a Handsome Black Lab.
If you like the beach and have a love of travel, that's a definite plus!!! I visit my son in California frequently and would love to meet a dinner companion. Send me a note....and perhaps we can get together.
When not on the coast, I'm usually working and doing the ordinary usual things you do in life. In my free time, I will opt for a run thru the trails, exploring antique shops, gardening and finding exquisite new garden shops, road trips with my camera, (always carry a camera!) playing the piano, watching football, wining with my friends and looking for new adventures.
I would love to meet someone whom I can share and enjoy life's moments with. And would love to see your world....and life. Show me your favorite spots.....geographically, that is! Distance? That's what Travelocity is for!
My friends would say that I am very adventurous, independent and passionate about life. I love people, new experiences and exploring new surroundings.... I love life and I'm rarely bored. It just is better when shared with someone special.
I would love a good man with a good brain! One who compliments what I am all about....and I, the same for him.
Although, my work is most rewarding and fun, I just know there is more to this whole "deal" than WORK! It's my turn now.....and I am looking forward to another chapter to experience. Hopefully, we can experience that together. I'm making strides in finding more time for FUN.
I don't dread nor regret anything in my life and hope that you don't either. After all, we are the ones that make those choices. I'm a risk taker and have been truly blessed in life!
You....are most intriguing, have depth, class, are generous and happy in your own skin. You can appreciate a good woman. You seek to share your interests and what you have learned in this life. You are genuine and real and seeking your best friend. You, too, are looking for a companion to travel with and explore new experiences together. If you love to golf, that's great. You golf, and I'll Spa....and we can meet for dinner afterwards!
So, if you've made it thru to the end of this.....and want to connect......drop me a line and let's meet!