Date men and women from United States / California / El Cajon, 56 year old

Date men and women from El Cajon, United States. Born into a poor black Southern family ... oh wait, no, that was Steve Martin. I grew up in the San Fernando Valley suburb of LA, and moved to San Diego in 1981 to attend law school. I never went back to LA. I am passionate about life, music, movies, history, politics, travel, books, exercise, healthy food and people, and I am always discovering new things to be passionate about. I am a musician. I play guitar and piano, and write songs. I work as a trial lawyer and enjoy it, but my work does not define me. I like when people say they would never guess I am a lawyer (usually happens in Hawaii when I am in shorts and a Hawaiian shirt - go figure). I am on a path of discovery. I am here to find a friend and a lover.

Meet single man from El Cajon, United States. Out going, adventurous and funny (trying to keep it simple) don't like complications too well, operate best in free spirit mode but I do like to plan as well. I love the outdoor and good company. Friends and family are important to me but meeting new people is fun especially when traveling or sightseeing.

Date someone special from El Cajon, United States. Wow, 4000 characters in this section to share all about me … Shoot, this may not be enough space … Ha Ha. Even though I am offered plenty of space to elaborate, I’ve decided just to give you a smidgen of who I am, what I like and who I’m in search of … This way, if you write me or send me a WINK I promise to respond and share much more.
I'm 55, really tall (so you can wear heals if you like to) comfortably divorced for close to 10 years, drama free and I never had any children. I'm a decent cook, pretty handy around the house, like to laugh and love making others laugh with my witty, quick and unsuspecting humor. I like to be active, playing a round or so of golf a week. Do you golf?
What I really want is to find the right special person to share things with. Sharing happy times together and building a great friendship that would someday become something more. Most importantly, I am not a player, I am looking for my last first date. Dating on Match is not a habitual thing for me and I am not a believer in; �the grass must be greener on the other side’. How about you? What are you looking for? Hum, perhaps it’s me … Let’s meet for a Lunch/Dinner or simply Coffee if you prefer … I am a �great catch’ and I come with references.

Meet a man from El Cajon, United States. me I am a happy grandfather my grand kids mean a lot to me. I am quite shy until you get to know me then I can be quite funny my sense of humor is very quick. I also love the type of work that I do private duty nurse. I would say the type of person I am looking for is not needy, but I am from the old school I treat a lady with respect at all time so if you are that lady that likes to take things slow I am that guy

Date people from El Cajon, United States. My close friends describe me as quiet and laid back.
What makes me smile is when i see a couple in love.
my greatest accomplishment was serving 20 years in the navy.
What i'm grateful for is my children are grown and living the live's they chose..
I like women who are self confident, outgoing, Comfortable in jeans or a dinner dress, who enjoys being pampered.
I'm looking for a long term relationship with that special lady.

Meet people from California, United States. I've been told that I'm fun to be around, and I get along with a ride range of personalities, I have a very eclectic group of friends. I tend to be a bit sarcastic, and I love it when people truly get it. I am a warm, nurturing, affectionate, intelligent, and funny person. At least, that's what my friends tell me. I'm very uncomplicated and down to earth, definitely not high maintenance. I love my family and I'm very close to my siblings, even though they live in other cities. I enjoy reading, concerts, watching sports, movies, the shooting range, shopping, and walking. I'm the mother of three (grown) children. One of them lives at home right now. I work in the software industry, and I really enjoy my job. I'm responsible and loyal. I think that I have a lot of integrity, and I try to be a good friend. One thing I will say is that I don't like boats (really, they don't like me), so water sports are not in my realm of activities. I'm the opposite of athletic, but I would like to be more active, and I'm looking for someone who has a great sense of humor, who is even tempered and who likes some of the same things that I do. But if you don't like chocolate, that's OK, it just means more for me!

Date men and women from California, United States. Friends think I'm funny, I think I'm a bit nuts. enjoy silly stuff, no supprise, I have four grandkids all boys. my social life is good, actually family stuff. looking for a family guy that likes to laugh and not worried about the small stuff. I hope to attract a nice, funny easygoing guy that will put up with my many hours of working, and time I spend with the grandkids. I would love to share my family with yours.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am a very happy, secure woman, content inside. I am a perpetual learner . I consider myself bright and work very hard- so when off work I take advantage of all life has or me. I love people and due to my midwestern upbringing speak to others passing by me. I am energetic so after work cannot wait to be outside exercising and getting my daily dose of vitamin D. Life is great now but adding romance and a loving partner will be the icing on the cake. I am fit, healthy and have always protected my skin from the sun and worn hats.
FYI -- **** I LIVE IN RANCHO SAN DIEGO, SE OF LA MESA AND JUST SOUTH OF EL CAJON ****
My match must be open, energetic, fit, into caring for himself and often thinks of others first. Someone not jaded by the challenges in life and one who really sees mostly the positive gifts life offers. Someone not too shy about shakin it on the dance floor from time to time. Someone who sees the bigger picture in life and feels a bigger spirit than himself. Must be a truly happy person who has dealt with past issues and has come out stronger and better for having taken that journey.
Here is what I "try" to live by:
IN LIVING MY LIFE I STRIVE TO PUT OTHERS FIRST IN MY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, BE DEVOTED TO ONE ANOTHER IN LOVE, DEMONSTRATING RESPECT ALWAYS, HONOR ONE ANOTHER ABOVE MYSELF, BE JOYFUL IN HOPE, PATIENT IN HARDSHIPS, AND FAITHFUL TO TODAY'S OPPORTUNITIES.

Date someone special from California, United States. Most people who know me wounder why I am not taken?
Yes It could be I am not a great speller Thank God for word check! There are many sides to me.
; ) I am not good at talking about myself. I am no Barbie doll and not in any big hurry to ...... just have any relationship. Yes I would like someone simular to me in needs and wants.
A stronge woman and want a partner who has good morals honesty integrity and fairness... values. Relationships need chemistery and useually little work in the beginning? If I am asked a question I well give you the best answer I know. I don't want to change anyone...... I want you to be you.
I am not on this web sight yet and not sure if I well. Not much to go on for trying it out. I really don't like the word dating or the games that go with it. My friends tell me: that I am outgoing and no one is a stranger, one of the most liked and respected people they have meet(at work? lol) I respect you for who you are,Men have called me a couger and a vixen...I am not it is called careing and loveingkindness, one may think they get away with something yet they really haven't, do have a problem with people whom feel they are better then you for what ever reason. I have great humor.To caring and compassionate most the time. Haveing great manners and etiquette Yet I am NOT athletic, my job gives me a great workout. I have been know to go from farm girl to glamore in the same day. And these pictures are just that pictures off to work and on my most rescent cruise. I love travel and cruiseing.
No one ever guesses my age right for I look younger by many years and in better shape then most women my age. Actually pretty proud of my age. Letting the gray come out. LOL I am a godly woman and still believe in liveing that way. believe that a relastionship has to have at least 70% friendship and a best friend. I really don't need someone around me every second of every day. Althought I prefer to eat as vegean as much as possiable I won't hold it against you if you eat more meat then me.Well lets try and leave something for conversation. lol :)

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am a fun-loving woman with a zest for life. I enjoy outdoor activites as well as watching a good DVD at home. I think that life's experiences are best shared and I would like to find my partner in crime. If you are smart, easygoing and darn funny, we might be a perfect pair! Why not give it a try?

Date people from United States. I am looking for a friend who might be more... I work nights and this can be a challenge, I also have family obligations, so whoever it is, he must be patient and understanding. I have a good sense of humor and would like the same in a partner.