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Date men and women from El Cajon, United States. Hi,
I would describe myself as a very easy going, easy to get along with laid back guy. I am stable in my career and happy with where I am in my life and I am ready for a committed relationship. Some of my friends and family say I missed my calling as a comedian. Honestly, I don’t think I could get up there I would be absolutely terrified!! So I'll save all my funny stuff for you.
I try to take care of myself by eating healthy, walking and the gym. (Although the double cheese burger and fries I had for dinner would make you think otherwise lol!!!) I am active and I will try almost anything once with the exception of jumping out of or off things! Don't get me wrong I like excitement and adventure just not the kind that scares the crap out of you. If your into that kind of stuff I'll see you when you get back lol... I really like being on the go and busy with projects or hobbies but a day to just kick back at home and do nothing is a must for me.
Who I am looking for? I am not sure to be honest. I feel like I will know when I meet her. So lets chat, meet for coffee and see if there is a connection.
Good luck with your search!

Meet people from El Cajon, United States. My profile is a work in progress. I am a single dad raising 9 y.o and 15 y.o daughters alone. No worries we are managing just fine. It would still be nice to have a woman's touch once in a while for them and for me.
I am single and would appreciate it if you were too. I dated a few "separated " women who turned out to be married. Very painful experiences. Please be real as honesty is very important. It hurts people and I don't like to be part of that in any way shape or form. Thank you.
I love the beach, listening to most kinds of music and traveling either as a road trip or on a plane. We spend a couple days a month at Disneyland. Last road trip was over spring break and I drove to Mt Rushmore in two days. I was wore out when we got there. Wyoming and Utah are really big states. It gives me a chance to spend preciously rare family time with them beyond friends and electronics. They actually need to talk to me then. Favorite place to chill solo is Waikiki. Favorite place to chill romantically is Kauai or just talking on a beach anywhere. Spend a bit of time in the islands, it's my escape when I get my mom to stay with my girls so I can run and relax. Galleries are awesome in Oahu and I have a few Heather Brown pictures in my art collection. When we're not in the islands, sometimes we just jump in the car and run up the coast or just go to the Farmer's Market in OB. There is a candy store in OB where you can get chocolate covered pop rocks. Interesting experience.
I like to cook and have been told I am OCD about keeping a home. Like time in my yard working with my hands too. Just want a good place to call home.
Like to learn and will read everything I can when I am trying to solve a challenge. Tend to be a fixer. Guy thing I am told. Working on that. Oldest daughter told me to just shut up one time as she didnt need me to fix her issue just needed me to listen. I did as she was right.
My background is technical in nature but I work in sales so I have developed both the ability to be a people person and problem solver. Helps to be humble or at least remember that when dealing with anyone.
So having given an idea of who I am, what am I looking for? So it appears I haven't lost you. Thank you.
I have grown to appreciate PDA whether it is a long sensuous kiss folded in my arms or just holding hands. I think it's awesome when I see an older couple holding hands. I would like a woman to be ok with that. Makes me smile inside and you should get that too. You are comfortable either in flip flops and shorts or a nice black dress and high heels. Jeans are good too when its not warm. I like women who understand kids. Moms are tops. The sacrifices a mom has done for her children will help you better understand my life and compliment it. For me it's about ohana or family. I just watched Lilo and Stitch for the nth time. That movie is all about ohana.
If you question any of this , all I can say is eventually you will walk in my home if you choose to. My only request is when you do so remember my girls will see you with their father. Keep that in mind if that day comes. It's how I look at life and others. Hopefully you understand that as well.

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Meet someone special from El Cajon, United States. First I should clarify the "good fortune" heading. I just feel like I am a very lucky person. I have a wonderful life and good things just seem to come my way. Maybe it is my "glass half full" attitude, or maybe it is more than that. I like living life to the fullest and appreciating every moment, whether it is a simple cup of tea, or something more exciting. I don't know about fearless, but I am definitely adventurous. I am a person who would try most things at least once. I like to be around secure people who are open-minded and for whom no subject is too off the rails to at least discuss. At the same time I consider myself to be well-grounded and have a realistic side which tempers the optimistic dreamer in me. Dreams are great if you have a plan to make them come true. I love intellectual conversation and fascinating people of all types and backgrounds. I consider myself to be well-rounded and have very broad interests. I also appreciate that quality in others. I am looking for someone equally comfortable playing around in jeans on a hike or dressed up at a nice restaurant. I am fit and considered attractive, dabbled in modeling years ago but am not obsessed with the physical. A reasonably attractive person with personality wins out hands down over physical beauty. I like fitness and outdoor activities of all types including: Mountain and Road Biking, Running, Weight Lifting, Scuba Diving, Sailing and Travel. I also enjoy GOOD movies, great meals and particularly, small gatherings of very special friends. I do a bit of writing when I make the time and find that very rewarding (have sold a few things). I am at a point in my life where I really want find just the right person and pursue mutual goals as a team. Two people working together to make their dreams come true are unstoppable. That should do it for now..certainly enough to get us started. I look forward to hearing from you. My ideal match is a person with lots of energy, creativity and zest for life. There must also be a physical attraction. I look forward to absolutely adoring the person I do life with. I appreciate people with varied interests that are flexible and comfortable in different settings. Have an appreciation for quality, but don't be materialistic. If my career in law enforcement scares you off, you are probably not for me. Note however that I am fairly well into it, have been fortunate enough to have moved up to a point where I don't do shift work any more. I have a very diverse group of friends so you should be comfortable around all sorts of people. I also have a very low tolerance for complaining pessimists. In short, I am looking for someone who wants to find their perfect match and build a beautiful life together. I also hope to find someone who realizes that no matter how good the match, relationships require nurturing and attention. I am not in a rush, but am looking for the person I will spend the rest of my life with.

Date a soulmate from El Cajon, United States. I am single, can't say that i'm definitely ready for a relationship, but i'm open to moving in that direction. I am a very happy person, love to have fun, love to see and make people smile. A smile says alot about a person. I now live in San Diego Ca, spent my first 10 years in the military here, then transfered to the East coast, came back to san diego for two years transfered back to the east coast and moved back to san diego in 2006. I love being a personal trainer and working my business, because I help people doing both.
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I think my first attempt needs a lot of work.
basically, I like to think I'm down to earth. however, I am also driven.
I've been told that I have an underlying current. not sure what that mean's, but I do stay busy allot, my job keeps me on my feet, and my brain going during the week. I also have my twelve year old son half of the week. he's everything to me. out of all the thing's that I try to do right, being a dad is where i try the hardest. and probably, bump my head the most. which leads me to the next thing. I try not to take myself serious, or anybody else for that matter sometimes. .I like to stay positive about things. and problems are just lessons. at least, most of the time. week ends are time to relax and play .I like to jump out of air planes for fun, really!. hiking, adventuring.museums. good movies. I also like being a homebody and do stuff around the house or trip off to the book store. Ive got lots of tattoos from my younger days. and an old motorcycle in the garage too. don't ride much these days. I can be fun to converse with . i like to talk about most things. laughing is important to me. I can have a sick sense of humor about things when appropriate (usually). I like to be happy. i love to have fun.I like being me. would be nice if someone else was here too. been doing this by myself stuff long enough.
I'm not really sure about this website stuff, most of you ladies out there wouldn't get past my outside long enough to find out how cool I am,....how how deep and diverse I really am. I'm sincere , honest. I'm a guy, got feelings... I'm personal and someday i hope maybe, love will come again some day. I don't even know if that one woman, would even look in a place like this.
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