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Date a soulmate from Aptos, United States. I am a man who is a good listener, attractive, passionate, genuine, classy, charming, romantic, kind, funny, and a true gentleman. I'm very intimate, have great hands, nice voice, love kissing, holding hands, and enjoy wrapping my arms around someone i care alot about.
In my work i am a difference maker, smart, loyal, dedicated, high energy and hardworking.
What separates me from almost everyman on this site is i don't play games and waste anybody's time. Life and time are precious to me. Being patient and developing close relationships are two of the many great gifts that life has to offer.
Who am i looking for? Simple. My ideal match is someone who is spiritual, true to herself, follows her heart. Cares lots for others. Like me, works hard and plays hard. Is not into the race, but the journey. Loves to be intimate. Adores her family. Enjoys cooking together. She must be beautiful inside and out. Wants to rock my world, cause i will rock hers. I'm looking for the one....

Meet single man from Aptos, United States. iam divorced and tired of being alone and also tired of bars and fake people ,i want a true partner and loving partner iam very loyal and trusting, iam old fashion and very polite and i have a great sense of humor ,i promise i will make you laugh

Date someone special from Aptos, United States. Caring person who is didicated to his son and raising him to be a caring and humble man..
Looking for someone that is not afraid to take risks, likes to laugh and have fun, can sit down and let the world go by once in a while(like saturday morning on a rainy day) . A person that is witty,can laugh at life when there is nothing else you can do and at yourself when no one else will, loves kids and life.
O I like Red Wine and Chocolate annnnnnd ice cream, but only once a day.....what.. is that too much
O and I think I am a pretty good bbqer and if you put ketchup on a $20 steak..... that could be a deal breaker.....................unnnnnless your cute, like the pig. He loves steak, but not real big on pork.
And the athletic is true, but the toned part..........

Meet men and women from Aptos, United States. I'm originally from New York City. I grew up along the "Jersey Shore" (Staten Island, NY. ) After college, I quickly left New York behind, headed for California. I went as far west as I could, but the Pacific Ocean was in the way, so I landed in Santa Cruz County where I have lived and worked ever since. Ms. Right is nice (been there, done that) but it would be even better to meet "Ms. Right-EST!"
On an average workday, I'm a lawyer in Santa Cruz. My job brings me to all parts of the Bay Area. I also lead a weekly group exercise class and present lectures to local businesses about workers' compensation and employment issues.
I'm a musician. I play 5 instruments and I sing. Classical, blues, rock, everything except boring country.
I've done some acting and stage work. I drove Santa Cruz Metro bus in the early '90s and I'm sure I drove some of the passengers more crazy than they already are. I've played in a rock-and-roll band, and I currently sing in a choir. I've had just about every job you can imagine. Currently, I am a Board Member of Save Our Shores, a Santa Cruz-based local non-profit dedicated to clean beaches, ocean preservation and reduction and elimination of the use of post-consumer products like styrofoam and plastics.
My ideal match enjoys what I enjoy... relaxing at home, or going out; good food, karaoke, the beach, the mountains. She likes to be held and caressed. She wants to be serenaded by me. She likes me to show her a good time, whether it be a weekend in SF or a day of walking around downtown Santa Cruz or Capitola.
I love to cook and eat great food. I enjoy playing music and I would love to serenade the rightest woman. If she can sing, that's a definite plus, as I will sing harmony to her melody.
Are you the one? I think you're out there somewhere...

Date a man from Aptos, United States. Hello, and don't hesitate to contact me! You never Know with this kind of thing and friendships are just as important(if not more so). I am An authentic sensitive male, the kind that most women say they want but don't always act on . I am also Independent and looking for a partner/friend not a dependent for a mate. I love to learn, grow, and experience new things.I would like to meet my life partner but am open to the ride along the way.You have captivating eyes, personality, and compassion.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Teacher, writer, and mother. Looking to share meaningful relating with a good, creative, smart man. I'm currently at work on my dissertation, researching women's stories as a means of narrative/political activism. I enjoy urban and natural environments, the life of culture, books, films, and good restaurants. I also love the quiet of natural spaces and the roar of the ocean. I have a dedicated spiritual practice of yoga and meditation, and would like to meet someone who values interior life as well as awareness in relating with self and others. Other things: an absence of television and too many books for shelves is good; reading as nourishment; meals and sharing food as an act of care; love of learning, of engaged study, and a knowledge that allows appreciation of the rigors, and limitations, of formal education. A large heart that cares about others and a mind that appreciates harmony in daily life -- even in our world of discord.

Date a woman from California, United States. Sigh....online dating??? I suppose anything is possible, but I admit I am little skeptical. I don't seem to meet a lot of new people in my every day life so here I am trying this out. I am lookimg for a best friend and partner in crime. :-)
People who know me would say I am a giving, kind, honest, affectionate person. My humor is a bit on the sarcastic side, but all in fun. I have a good career and am independent. I am not looking for someone to support me. Labels and or designer names don't impress me, so I'm not a "high maintenance" girl (I actually dislike shopping, if I could get everything online I would be happy)
I have been on my own for quite some time and I am ok by myself, but ultimately I miss the companionship, friendship and intimacy of a relationship. Being the affectionate person I am, I believe that it is important in a healthy relationship. Ultimately, I am looking for long term, with one person...not serial dating. No rushing necessary.
I have a 14 year old son and he means the world to me.. He really supports this and tells me I need to find someone. He is at an age where spending all his time with mom is just not what he wants to do. I am at a point in my life where I would really like to find someone special to spend time with and have fun and my son agrees!
In the past year I realized I need to be more active so I started running (jogging). I try to run 4-5 days a week for around 3-4 miles. I am excited to be running my first "Wharf to Wharf " in July.
Things I like to do...travel, going to movies, wine tasting, walks on the beach, concerts, dancing, watching football (love football), people watching. I am willing to try new things. It's important to share in eachothers interests and equally important to occasionally have your own space. I am not selfish. I am open to most music, but don't really care for country or rap. Looking for someone who is willing to share lifes ups and downs and everything in between.

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