Date men and women from United States / California / Dublin, 34 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Alright lady match browsers, I figured I'd give this online dating website a shot. Although first dates seem to be like a job interview for me, I try to make the best of it. I would love to start off as friends and see where it goes. Setting that as an expectation usually takes the pressure off, especially when you're possibly going to meet the person you could potentially marry.
Now for the fun stuff....I was born in Brasil but after a year moved to the states. I lived primarily in the bay area, but have lived in Canada, Miami, Washington DC, and Sacramento. My family originated from South Africa, and when affirmative action was a huge deal, I tried to list myself as an African American on my college apps.
My life is pretty much set. Great job, house, amazing friends etc... all I need is to find the right person to share it with. I'm hoping to find someone that is open minded, passionate, career/family orientated, good values, and can accept that I have an amazing daughter. Usually people have a preconception that single adults that have children come with baggage, however I've invested many years in creating a drama free environment for anyone that I'm with...otherwise I wouldn't be on this site.
For some strange reason, I tend to find myself attracted to women with more differences than similarities (probably a 60/40 ratio) I gravitate towards new things that people can offer in relationships as in most cases it always produces a favorable outcome. For example, I just recently got into photography as a hobby...and instead of being attracted to someone else that is also into photography, I would probably find myself being attracted to someone that is into basket weaving. Yea...random right. I think it's the unique things in people that I enjoy most as I always have a passion to learn. Another random fact about me is that I really like scars...probably cause there's a nice juicy story about them. I'm also pretty dynamic as if you throw me in with a bunch of high schoolers and Phd's I'd be able to engage with both of them.
If you're a GIANTS fan, you will get huge bonus points on my scale. I absolutely love going to games. Something about Beer and shaboygens turn me on. If you're worthy.. I'll take you to a game, just bring a lot of gum while we share those garlic fries.
I'm trying to give the mysterious vibe here on Match so I'm not going to give up too much about me. If you want to know more shoot me a message.

Meet people from California, United States. I'm a real easy going guy, however I can get really excited about a new movie, or a friend that is buying a house, or a conversation with a friend about the patterns in life. Friends call me eccentric at times; case in point, for the past 6 months I've taken nothing but baths instead of the usual showers. It's an awesome experience that may seem trivial but it's so relaxing and places me in a state of relaxation prior to bed. I smile at awesome sunsets, and cloud vistas that seems to stretch into eternity.
I'm humbled by my past military experiences as a Navy bomb squad technician (EOD) and the perspectives and general appreciation for all things in this country.
I really enjoy business and finance, as it's a highly interesting and intriguing look at the real experience into the dynamics of mass human sociology and psychology with worldwide implications.
My life up to this point has me extremely grateful for occupying in the top 5% of the human race in terms of standard of living. The lifestyle and freedoms afforded are truly amazing. I would place myself at 65% introvert and 35% extrovert. I love to relax and read, watch movies with friends, and drink coffee at Starbucks. My extrovert side comes out when I'm with friends or family getting excited about some new concept or perspective. People are often surprised to see me talk on the phone. I'm highly confident and sometimes a little arrogant over the phone as I did a stint as a bill collections specialist. But in person I'm easy going and love to hear and debate the soft sides to life.
I love trance music which is a sub-genre of electronic. But when I wear that out, I turn to 94.9 to take a break. When I'm in my bath mode it's Enya and other new age relaxing music which puts me into a total state of relaxation. Also like other music like Foster the People and general alternative.
I'm looking for a women that I get along with through the trail and error periods of dating. Since I believe that there are almost an infinite about of variables at work between a man and a women, I find it nearly impossible to pin down what it is that I'm looking for. I believe rather through trail and error and the free associations of dating, talking, spending time together, etc that two people can find happiness together. Romanic is defined as the mystery of love... that moment when the world turns black and white and the women of your dreams is in living color... a true connection... given the amount of people on this planet, I consider it a matter of time until that women enters my life and I enter hers in a balanced harmony of exchange... courage is the act of not settling down until you find her... til the end my eyes will be open to the possibilites, and that is a prosperous life.. a noble persuit... There is no easy approach or simple answer, but rather a fuzzy coming together. If it doesn't work then you move on and continue to search for that special person. So I'll wrap this up with a quote from Steve Jobs, "As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle."

Date single man from California, United States. I'm the typical old-fashioned gentleman and nice guy. I'm very honest, mature, romantic, playful, loyal, committed, respectful, loving, caring, understanding, faithful, sweet, sincere, young-at-heart, and yes, I'm real. I am all these things, not just saying it, and I will back it up. I love to cuddle, snuggle, hold hands, kiss in public (love PDAs), flirt (with you only), as long as we're spending time together, that's really all that should matter. I can have fun doing just about anything. I don't mind staying in, nor do I mind going out. I do know how to compromise and sacrifice. I'm very mature in the sense that I have experience a lot and have learned from others, and my own mistakes. This may sound odd or strange, but, at this point in my life I'm starting to know what "it's" about and what I want out of life. I won't play games and won't waste your time. If things get to that point I'm not afraid of committment and will take the extra step with you if you feel the same way. I'm not a serial dater, looking for that one last date, like you are. I've stop playing games since I was 21. Above all, I'm not a fake, I'm real and keep it real. I can back up my talk unlike most guys on here so I've heard.
I do have a job, two cars, and a degree. I'm a pretty simple and laid back kind of guy. I like have dinners together, taking walks along the beach, staring at the sunset or sunrise, watch movies, and just about anything really. Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but, I'm very romantic. I believe in a gentleman who treat women like ladies and should always treat them like that even if we get married. On that note yes I will open doors for you, give you my jacket, hold your bags or your purse, go shopping with you with no hesitation.
Who am I looking for? Pretty hard to say. Honesty and trust is very important to me. Communication also as it builds the foundation of a long-lasting relationship. Someone who appreciates me for me. I can and will change on certain aspects, but, will my ground when I need to. Will stand by my side like I will for her. Someone who knows how to love and be loved. Very different things. Loves kids and is open to having children (down the road of course, not trying to scare anyone). Very understanding that I'm very loving and romantic and doesn't mistake this for being taken advantage of, hopefully, you'll know better.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Single and looking for a nice and sweet girl to talk to. I am a easy going person, love to travel and explore new places, go on long drives, watch movies. Friends say I am a good listener , a few know that I am dozing off while they were talking.

Date a woman from California, United States. Me: I have a great life, loving family and awesome friends...the only thing missing is someone to share it all with (cheesy but true).There isn't anything I wouldn't do for the people I love. I am very loyal and I have a huge heart (not literally). Treat me with honesty and respect and you will get the same in return. I am a self-proclaimed air hockey champion. Yes, I actually have an air hockey table at my house, along with a pinball machine and ping pong table (to appease my inner child). Sometimes quite shy but also quite funny. My sense of humor is at times dry and sarcastic so please don't mistake that for bitchiness. On warm summer nights I enjoy riding my cruiser around or having friends over to bbq in the backyard. I love the smell of the ocean and the way the sand feels between my toes. When I retire I definitely want a beach house. I love a good dive bar, live music and great food. Live sporting events are always a good time, especially SF Giants games. At times I am a bit of a homebody and like to snuggle up with a good book or movie on a cold, rainy day. I am definitely all girl and love dressing up...but I am also quite comfortable in jeans, my Chucks and a baseball hat.
Who I am looking for: A man who is not afraid to challenge me. A man who will open my car door for me, take charge when necessary and treat me like a lady. I need a man who can make me laugh and enjoys being silly. Someone who does those little things when you least expect it. I don't need a big diamond ring but I do like fresh flowers, love notes and a man who can cook. Must be willing to travel and explore. If you are handy around the house that is a major bonus!

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm the first one to say "I'm in" when it comes to fun, friends, and family. I get excited about anything and everything that interests me. Music, family, friends, entertainment, travel, work, fun.... etc. Looking for a guy that finds the humor is any situation, likes to have fun yet has a good sense of responsibility and adventure.

Date men and women from United States. Writing about myself is a bit awkward and in a way that conveys who I am without sounding too arrogant. I've re-written this thing a couple times now and I really like bullet list's so here's my bullets list:
-I'm an open and friendly person who like to make people feel important and valued
-I just moved back to my home state of CA after adventuring in Missouri for the past 8 years
-I am very close to my family (hence the move back)
-I have a large network of friends, near and far, and try to keep up with them (thank God for Facebook) and see them as much as possible
-I work with college students and can't imagine doing anything else, where else can you go rafting and camping for work
-I value people and relationships and am pretty outgoing and adventerous, so I'm usually up for anything as long as I'm with people.
-I love to laugh and don't take life too seriously
-I like to hike and can't wait to revisit some of my old favorite spots
-I read a lot, especially fiction, it's a vice at times, that and I like to stay updated on Pop culture
-I'm also quite a movie buff and love finding hidden gems on Netflix
-I REALLY love music, all kinds, but especially 80's rock, new wave and pop...I love finding dive bars that have Karaoke, it's probably my favorite thing to do!
-My life is pretty full and I'm not looking for someone to complete me per se, I just think life would be a little funner if I could share it with someone.
who I'm looking for? A guy who...
- enjoys life and has a positive outlook
-knows himself and doesn't take himself too seriously
-likes to be social
-values family
Gosh I said way more about myself than you, hopefully you'll email me and let me know more!

Meet people from United States. I'm a dedicated and loving life-time partner in life. I'm open and honest. I would like to meet someone for a long term relationship, special man that that will love me for who I'm and love my children as his own.