Date men from United States / California / Dublin, 34 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Alright lady match browsers, I figured I'd give this online dating website a shot. Although first dates seem to be like a job interview for me, I try to make the best of it. I would love to start off as friends and see where it goes. Setting that as an expectation usually takes the pressure off, especially when you're possibly going to meet the person you could potentially marry.
Now for the fun stuff....I was born in Brasil but after a year moved to the states. I lived primarily in the bay area, but have lived in Canada, Miami, Washington DC, and Sacramento. My family originated from South Africa, and when affirmative action was a huge deal, I tried to list myself as an African American on my college apps.
My life is pretty much set. Great job, house, amazing friends etc... all I need is to find the right person to share it with. I'm hoping to find someone that is open minded, passionate, career/family orientated, good values, and can accept that I have an amazing daughter. Usually people have a preconception that single adults that have children come with baggage, however I've invested many years in creating a drama free environment for anyone that I'm with...otherwise I wouldn't be on this site.
For some strange reason, I tend to find myself attracted to women with more differences than similarities (probably a 60/40 ratio) I gravitate towards new things that people can offer in relationships as in most cases it always produces a favorable outcome. For example, I just recently got into photography as a hobby...and instead of being attracted to someone else that is also into photography, I would probably find myself being attracted to someone that is into basket weaving. Yea...random right. I think it's the unique things in people that I enjoy most as I always have a passion to learn. Another random fact about me is that I really like scars...probably cause there's a nice juicy story about them. I'm also pretty dynamic as if you throw me in with a bunch of high schoolers and Phd's I'd be able to engage with both of them.
If you're a GIANTS fan, you will get huge bonus points on my scale. I absolutely love going to games. Something about Beer and shaboygens turn me on. If you're worthy.. I'll take you to a game, just bring a lot of gum while we share those garlic fries.
I'm trying to give the mysterious vibe here on Match so I'm not going to give up too much about me. If you want to know more shoot me a message.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm a real easy going guy, however I can get really excited about a new movie, or a friend that is buying a house, or a conversation with a friend about the patterns in life. Friends call me eccentric at times; case in point, for the past 6 months I've taken nothing but baths instead of the usual showers. It's an awesome experience that may seem trivial but it's so relaxing and places me in a state of relaxation prior to bed. I smile at awesome sunsets, and cloud vistas that seems to stretch into eternity.
I'm humbled by my past military experiences as a Navy bomb squad technician (EOD) and the perspectives and general appreciation for all things in this country.
I really enjoy business and finance, as it's a highly interesting and intriguing look at the real experience into the dynamics of mass human sociology and psychology with worldwide implications.
My life up to this point has me extremely grateful for occupying in the top 5% of the human race in terms of standard of living. The lifestyle and freedoms afforded are truly amazing. I would place myself at 65% introvert and 35% extrovert. I love to relax and read, watch movies with friends, and drink coffee at Starbucks. My extrovert side comes out when I'm with friends or family getting excited about some new concept or perspective. People are often surprised to see me talk on the phone. I'm highly confident and sometimes a little arrogant over the phone as I did a stint as a bill collections specialist. But in person I'm easy going and love to hear and debate the soft sides to life.
I love trance music which is a sub-genre of electronic. But when I wear that out, I turn to 94.9 to take a break. When I'm in my bath mode it's Enya and other new age relaxing music which puts me into a total state of relaxation. Also like other music like Foster the People and general alternative.
I'm looking for a women that I get along with through the trail and error periods of dating. Since I believe that there are almost an infinite about of variables at work between a man and a women, I find it nearly impossible to pin down what it is that I'm looking for. I believe rather through trail and error and the free associations of dating, talking, spending time together, etc that two people can find happiness together. Romanic is defined as the mystery of love... that moment when the world turns black and white and the women of your dreams is in living color... a true connection... given the amount of people on this planet, I consider it a matter of time until that women enters my life and I enter hers in a balanced harmony of exchange... courage is the act of not settling down until you find her... til the end my eyes will be open to the possibilites, and that is a prosperous life.. a noble persuit... There is no easy approach or simple answer, but rather a fuzzy coming together. If it doesn't work then you move on and continue to search for that special person. So I'll wrap this up with a quote from Steve Jobs, "As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle."

Date single man from California, United States. I'm the typical old-fashioned gentleman and nice guy. I'm very honest, mature, romantic, playful, loyal, committed, respectful, loving, caring, understanding, faithful, sweet, sincere, young-at-heart, and yes, I'm real. I am all these things, not just saying it, and I will back it up. I love to cuddle, snuggle, hold hands, kiss in public (love PDAs), flirt (with you only), as long as we're spending time together, that's really all that should matter. I can have fun doing just about anything. I don't mind staying in, nor do I mind going out. I do know how to compromise and sacrifice. I'm very mature in the sense that I have experience a lot and have learned from others, and my own mistakes. This may sound odd or strange, but, at this point in my life I'm starting to know what "it's" about and what I want out of life. I won't play games and won't waste your time. If things get to that point I'm not afraid of committment and will take the extra step with you if you feel the same way. I'm not a serial dater, looking for that one last date, like you are. I've stop playing games since I was 21. Above all, I'm not a fake, I'm real and keep it real. I can back up my talk unlike most guys on here so I've heard.
I do have a job, two cars, and a degree. I'm a pretty simple and laid back kind of guy. I like have dinners together, taking walks along the beach, staring at the sunset or sunrise, watch movies, and just about anything really. Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but, I'm very romantic. I believe in a gentleman who treat women like ladies and should always treat them like that even if we get married. On that note yes I will open doors for you, give you my jacket, hold your bags or your purse, go shopping with you with no hesitation.
Who am I looking for? Pretty hard to say. Honesty and trust is very important to me. Communication also as it builds the foundation of a long-lasting relationship. Someone who appreciates me for me. I can and will change on certain aspects, but, will my ground when I need to. Will stand by my side like I will for her. Someone who knows how to love and be loved. Very different things. Loves kids and is open to having children (down the road of course, not trying to scare anyone). Very understanding that I'm very loving and romantic and doesn't mistake this for being taken advantage of, hopefully, you'll know better.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Single and looking for a nice and sweet girl to talk to. I am a easy going person, love to travel and explore new places, go on long drives, watch movies. Friends say I am a good listener , a few know that I am dozing off while they were talking.