Date men from United States / California / Petaluma, 36 year old

Date a man from United States. Life is full of surprises, I feel there are no mistakes just some good lessons to learn from. Life is to short to ponder the things you could of done so you should just do them. Say what you want, say what you mean, and do what you want.
What you see is what you get. I am a very sexual person, sometimes brutally honest, sarcastic, funny, quick witted. If anything else I guarantee you will feel something. I have some fashion sense and if your wearing ugly shoes I will let you know. I will give you a bad time and hope you can give me a bad time back.
My desired woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it; she likes her man to be a man but still be able to show his emotions. Balance is important to her, she works hard enough but her job doesn't consume all her energy. She enjoys the nice things in life, but is also spiritual and doesn't get caught up in the quest for material things. She wants a man in her life, but doesn't need one. She knows that she and her man will be worth more together than apart. She enjoys the simple things in life but can be spontaneous. She likes to travel to far-off places, and relax on sandy beaches under a hot sun, then cool off in the sea, but she also likes the hustle and bustle of a busy city.She is centered and content, but being with people that she cares about is important to her. She is kind and considerate and would like to be her natural caring self with people who have earned her trust. She wants a man who understands her- one she doesn't need to tell her what she wants, but just knows. A man who can be the closet person to her, help her make decisions, and always be there to offer his strengh when she needs it. She won't find him right away, but she will know when she does
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