Date men from United States / California / Santee, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. The older you get the wiser you get..I have been in long relationships and also short ones...lol..I no who I am and no what I want..I hope u do to..I'm looking for someone who wants to build a future together..not me build your future or you build mine..and I want to be able to have fun doing it..