Date men from United States / California / Goleta, 36 year old

Date single man from Goleta, United States. best description of me would be honest at all cost,person that can be relied on just a phone call away . I have 18 and 7 year old sons and a 17 year old daughter and I'm only 36 so u could say I started my 23 year long term relationship early in life at 15 having my first son at a very early age only to find out 23 years later I was with a deadbeat mother . My kids want nothing to do with her wich I believe is best for them negativity can really have an impact on them. I believe the saying friends before lovers .its the simple things in life that make me happy not materialistic been there done that so I'm looking for someone that is not too serious. All the time so we can laugh and enjoy what life has too offer. The person must except and like being around teenagers and a 7 year old or it's not going too work out from the start