Date women from United States / California / Calabasas, 36 year old

Date someone special from Calabasas, United States. Ok ok ok, the lady will speak...
I LUV to have fun as well as have deep conversations. Best way to describe me: FOCUSED and FUN! :) And my friends/close people in my life would describe me as being the MOST HONEST person they know with the biggest heart. My friends also describe me as being more of a guy in the sense that I'm NEVER moody...so, that tends to be a plus...
Was a 5 year full ride scholarship athlete (tennis) and had over 13 full rides across the country...so I know how to work hard. I also love to have fun...live in the moment as well. I'm extremely musical too (am getting back into my performing and working w/ some incredible people already)...tell you more later if interested. So, here we have a blond that is competitive, VERY driven, focused and fun...does that sum it up people?
Also highly entrepreneurial, strong family values (parents are STILL 2gether and very happy but work at it). I ADORE my family and spend a lot of time w/ them because they are supportive, tons of FUN, friends want to be adopted by them, and well, they do live close by.
I'm very independent and appreciate my own time and space (very important). Unlike most girls, I'm NOT clingy and dependent AT ALL! Hopefully you CAN respect that...as I'm loyal, loving, and have a heart of gold...ohhhh very SILLY and child-like too!! Love to wear Vans and Converse - yep, a kid over here...but a VERY dependable and responsible one. Love to get dressed up too - YES, I can be an adult! :)
Also, IMPORTANT - I'm COMPLETELY OVER that whole party scene. BEEN there DONE that. I love to have fun, trust me, but...not into the club scene so much...so, if you are, by all means do not let me stop you - GO DANCE right now and get your groove on...sorry, just not into that. Did TONS of it in college and some after. I'm NOT a home body at all...but not into that scene...alrighty then, now that is covered... Also, just HIGHLY focused on my career and am just loving what I'm doing, NEVER been happier and very excited for what's to come. (THIS PART might scare the HIGHLY insecure guys away) :) Definitely interested in someone HIGHLY secure!!! Is that you?
So, after all of that, would I make room/take time for the right person - but of course. Willing to be friends first and then see where things go...or well, you just never know. I'm open-minded, THANK GOODNESS!!!! As much as I've been through, have still managed to not be jaded unlike most.
I truly look forward to hearing from you...