Date women from United States / California / Banning, 36 year old

Date a woman from United States. I enjoy lot of different activites hiking, camping, movies, bowling, the beach, wine tasting, going to museums, amusement parks, hanging out with friends...all the ususal stuff I suppose. I have 3 great kids two teenagers and a 10 year old, not the scary kind of teenagers everyone has told you about the good kids who are hilarious...They are growing up now and seem to think that it is ok to have a life of their own!?! So between that and the 14 days off I have from my job each month I have lots of free time to go do things.
I do not care if you have children. I enjoy children and being around them and would want to have a relationship once both of us are sure that this is something to be pursued because the childrens stability has to be number one. I am not willing to have more children myself.
I have a full sleeve of tattoos on my right arm and two others...I am a terrible singer but I may assault you with my voice if we are on a car trip and I am trying to stay awake...hmmm I like lots of different music, my favs are 90's alternativegrunge music, Veruca Salt should have never broken up...yes I am such a girl... I am an amazing cook not just good amazing and I like to cook too... don't like to do dishes so lucky I have kids for that!
I have an average body. I am not a bikini model and I am not a cow I'm just average. I have pretty hair, I take care of my appearance, I dress like a girlie girl, I love to get dirty when I am out in nature. I have been told that I am funny and that I am very scarcastic. My pictures are current withing the last two months.
If you do not look like your pics, you just want to "hook-up", or you are playing some dumb game PLEASE DO NOT contact me...I don't want to play....
I am not looking for some guy who thinks he is a "gangster" or wants to "party" I am a bottle of wine at home with my man kind of girl not a get wasted and act like an idiot girl. I have manners and do what I say I am going to do, I expect the same simple as that mutual respect. I want a gentleman who is looking for someone who can be fun and get dirty in the outdoors, looks like the woman your mom has been praying you'd bring home, and can get dressed up like a lady and impress your boss and you.
Side note...I recently stepped up my work out routine so that hopefully in the next month or so I can check the athletic box again :)
I am looking for a straight up guy who knows that he is ready for a relationship with one woman. Lets go out see if we get along if we laugh and have common values why not see what happens thats why were on here right... Sorry this is so long but I seem to be finding men who do not fit what I am looking for so I thought I should be more clear.