Date women from United States / California / Diamond Bar, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Yikes, I hate this part, but it's the important, right? First of... I am looking looking for someone who is ready for a serious relationship, PLUS they must have no relationship, emotional, baby mama baggage PLEASE!!!! I don't respond to winks, sorry. OK, now that we have that out of the way.......
Well, I am usually an open book, but I may come across shy at first, at least I think I do! It's hard to put it all down in writing without sounding dull or conceited. Well, I am fun, outgoing, optimistic, ambitious, loyal and.....so they say, very pretty:) A downfall of mine is that I am a hopeless romantic. I would love to find someone with some of these traits; however, being a fun loving person is mandatory..... If you are bump on a log or negative, please move on, sorry. My thought is that life is short, so you should be surround by positive people in your life;) My friends always say that something crazy always happens when I am around, I don't know why, but it's true, so there is never a dull moment when you're with me.
I am looking for an Emotionally Stable Gentleman, someone who opens the door for me once in a blue moon, I really miss that in a relationship. I am not demanding and will not treat you like a doormat, I just want to be treated like a lady. In return, I will treat you in respect, it's in my nature.
After spending many years in a stagnant relationship, I came to my senses and realized it was time to move on. I am new to online dating, so I am not 100% sure this will work, but I am willing to try it for now, however I am looking forward to meeting new people to meet, just not one night stands. NO BOOTY CALLS!!!!!
I don't post my pictures due to privacy, but once you contact me, I will promise to send you some more pics, really I will =)

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am generally a happy person (unless I haven't had my coffee!) and I enjoy being around happy people. I enjoy good laughs, great food and drinks and quality time spent with family and friends. I am always up for an adventure be it a new restaurant, sporting event or learning something new. If there is fun to be had, I'm all over it!
On my short list of favorites...spending time outdoors hiking or walking around exploring new places, road trips (I love driving North up the coast to San Fran or South to San Diego and of course Vegas!), I love music and going to concerts, I try to spend time at the beach whenever possible especially now during my summer break, wine tasting, hanging at the park on a sunny day, museums, fairs, Disneyland and other interesting sights to spend the day/night, Other than destinations close to home, I haven't had much opportunity to travel, but I am looking forward to exploring the world someday soon.
Overall I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of a girl, but it would be amazing to meet someone who adds even more to my overall happiness. I would like to meet someone who is intelligent, kind, has strong family ties, supportive loyal friends, has ambition and passion for their chosen career, a solid education--this is a must, a great sense of humor, has free time to spend getting to know me, likes to travel and has a desire to share adventures (both big and small). So let's hang out, have some drinks and conversation and see what happens. Winks are fun, but emails are better! Thanks for reading and good luck!