Date women from United States / California / Belmont, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. You are quick witted, educated and established. I am happy, positive and know how to carry a life. However, I can be ideal at a time. I need you to drag me back to the reality. I am insightful, analytical and constantly seeking improvement. An INTJ type describs me well. I know I am rare in woman. :-) I am trying to balance myself by expanding my social circle, being more emotional..lol...etc what an INTJ can improve. I am a perfectionst but learnt that we are all human beings at some points failing standards. I am more forgiven than ever.
I enjoy to see my friends and family happy. I am a giver and loyal dedicator to the people I love though I am very selective. I have that pattern either 100 percent or 0. I enjoy spoiling the one I love. I am mature, level headed but crave a father like attention.
It took me 2 years to realize that I am a better person in a relationship. I am serious but not desperate in terms of looking for the partner of the rest of my life.
What defines my partner is his value, goal, family, friends and the eyes looking into me. Embracing Chinese culture is a huge huge plus for me. There are ups and downs in the life. I hope we walk thru that hand in hand. I would never worry about even if this is the end of the world.