Date women from United States / California / Middletown, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. ABOUT ME... it's always hard to describe yourself without either sounding completely pretentious or like an un-dateable loser! So here goes my humble attempt...I am a kind fun happy person, very honest, caring and loyal. Looking for the same in a man. I'm old fashioned about some things, but have contemporary views on others. I don't expect to find Mr. Right immediately, but I'm excited to meet some new friends! If one of those friendships turns into more, great! If not, that's okay too. Don't get me wrong... I DO want that fairytale ending but I realize I must kiss a few frogs along the way until I find Prince Charming!
I am not into games and you shouldn't be either. I'm at a good place in my life, and the only thing missing is someone to share it with. I am not looking for a hook-up or two; there are other sites for that. I'm here because I live in a small town, with little to nothing to offer a single woman. I'm ready to meet someone great, spend quality time together, and possibly build a relationship together.
WHO I'M LOOKING FOR... Someone that is caring, loves kids, can make me laugh, and is a very hard worker (I've dated enough dead-beats to last a lifetime!) My Prince Charming will know how to treat a lady. I'm looking for a man who can prove to me that Chivalry is not dead. My ideal man is one who likes to laugh and enjoy life, be spontaneous - live a little, laugh a lot. Doesn't take himself too seriously, but enjoys deep conversation...a thinker. Someone who has an opinion and can keep me on my toes! I want a man who isn't afraid to be honest, regardless of what the truth may be. Alcoholics, smokers, superficial, shallow and married men - no thank you.
FINAL NOTE... I feel like I should change my Match Body Type to 'Athletic and Toned' because it seems that's the box everyone has checked. However, I will keep mine honest with 'A few extra pounds' because, while I'm not plump enough for it to be over if I sang, I could stand to lose a few pounds.