Date men and women from United States / California / San Ramon, 40 year old

Date people from California, United States. I am fun loving person with a natural sense humor. I live as active lifestyle as my time allows and enjoy getting out of bed early and enjoying the day. Even though my primary purpose is to enjoy life, I've found that to do so at I high level requires balance and a willingness to live life on life's terms. Which to me, is addressing the hardships with as much openess and honesty as I put into the good times. As far as my dating experiences are concerned. It's been a year and half since my last relationship, which was my ex-wife, so if you are looking for a guy whose been through the dating scene rigger, that's not me - don't interpret that as I don't know what I want. It's just that I expect to make some mistakes along the way. However, even though I haven't been back out there for long, I do know who I am and I know what I want. Which is to date, flirt, and then let the natural cycle of relationship take control. I don't see online dating as my means to interview and be interviewed for marriage. If that is what happens then it's what was meant to be, but I'm not on an accelerated timeline. I look at it as a means to expand the pool of possibilities.
I am originally from Denver, but have grown some very strong roots in Bay Area over the 11 years I've been here. I know their strong because I've forsaken all of my Denver sports allegiances that I grew up with for the home teams. Even deciding that I would definitely wearing Maroon and Gold in a Niners v. Broncos SuperBowl.
You'll notice that I never drink, but don't let that fool you. I'm not a wet blanket. I can hang and be just as social as anyone. I just don't find the affect of alcohol appealing anymore.
I am looking for someone genuine, spiritual, fun, open and willing to take me for the guy I am. Someone who can understand that a sometimes single dad comes with a little baggage (not drama), like a set schedule and an ongoing friendly relationship with an ex-wife but current co-parent.
If you like what you see and read, then let me know. It don't cost nothin.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. as the headline suggests, just like everyone else(and thanks to all those tv ads by Dr. Phil), I've ended up on this site too looking for the answers to those questions...did it get your attention though...;)...have been told that my sense of humor isn't too bad(a little goofy and whacky at times). Software Engineer by profession...
so what brings me here... aside from the fact that for some reason things didn't move forward in the real world so here I am on this site hoping to stumble upon someone to share moments of life with who would also make it special... I have no emotional baggage from the past, never married...for me qualities on the "inside" matter more than the outside... although physical attraction cannot be denied as a component that influences the "spark" too... so the outside can't be ignored either...and that goes both ways...in the sense that you would probably be assessing the same of me....
more low-down on myself, I consider myself a cool, laid-back, easy to get along with kind of a person... but on the flip side my professional life is quite fast-moving and there's literally something new happening to be tackled every day... after many years as a software engineer I still stumble upon new things at work and it doesn't ever end... needless to say it's keeps me on my toes and I thoroughly enjoy what I do...
I do try to inject a fair amount of discipline and energy in my daily routine...work out regularly(twice a week trying to push it up to three - just hired a trainer and she's charging a lot, can tell you that...!) play basketball and like yoga, have been out of touch with that for a while.... pretty much an outdoors kind of person - am into wilderness treks and canoeing/rafting. Yet to try other sky diving in near future and even explore the Canadian wilderness someday(which hopefully won't be in the 'too' distant future)... recently started to work on scuba certification.... must be pretty apparent that I have strong feelings about the environment and conservation(anyone know there are huge islands of garbage floating around in the oceans worldwide)... that doesn't mean I'm here to look for an activity partner to get into a raft and go down a gorge with or scale a mountain with.... I also like nice conversations, nice cup of coffee with someone special, watching movies, exploring picturesque locales...so that was my storyu, how about you tell me yours...? I like stories(even bed-time ones, jk...!)...to summarize, am looking for a stable, down to earth, non egoistic, non self-centered, nice woman who I'd be attracted to(and hopefully she'd be attracted to me) for a long term relationship leading to marriage and a family....

Date a man from California, United States. I'm pretty laid back and happy person in general. I work for a hospital as a compute analyst that allows me to make the doctors feel stupid when using a computer, always fun to do. I also am in the national guard so I get to play soldier one weekend a month. I'm pretty simple and easy person to know, and can have a strange and weird sense of humor that can be sarcastic or wicked. If you want to really know more all you have to do is ask, and find out for yourself until then have a great day. Oh if you have yahhhho, you can reach me at lrlacy2.