Date men and women from United States / California / Big Bear City, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Im an interesting person. I think im funny. Im pretty much down for anything but i got to ask my mom first. just kidding. And i love pretty women. if u can deal with that i might be that one. so ball is in your court.

Meet people from United States. Age, weight, and race are NOT important.
Religious preference in my match is not important to me.
Personality is KEY!!!
Are you willing to share our lives together?
I know it can seem impersonal on these types of sites, but please give it a chance. I know women need to feel secure in meeting new people. I know it can often feel overwhelming. I am also new to this kind of thing, but I know I am NOT called to be alone. And since you, too, are on this site, then, my guess is you are not supposed to be alone either. Just, if you can, find a comfortable chair and relax while you read on.
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This is what you are here to learn about... (Oh Boy!!! Here comes all the I's)
I wear many hats (literally and figuratively).
I am TALL (6 feet 2 inch) with average weight, as you can see by my pictures.
I am a self-confident man and a dreamer.
I was in the military for many years; 12 years to be exact.
I have 3 degrees.
I am always looking for an adventure.
I am outgoing and a hopeless romantic.
I am an old fashioned man, with old fashioned values.
I am a generous man.
I give unconditionally.
I am caught in the middle of Life and doing it without a life partner.
I am a full-time father and have a very energetic 4 year old. I have SOLE custody and his mother is not around. She is in another state, so, there are mostly no drama headaches.
Please, Dont let the religious over-tone fool you. I am a man and not perfect, nor am I seeking the perfect mate. I know neither exists. :)
I am a man after Gods heart. I am an imperfect man who strives to ultimately do the right thing... for God, my family, my country, my church, and for my neighbors.
I don't always use Christian "talk" but my heart is where it needs to be; wanting Gods will.
If you are looking for the perfect man, then, kindly look in your bible.
I am not a big "bible-thumper". Dont let my PERSONAL convictions scare you away.
I don't read my bible daily, or sometimes weekly, sometimes even monthly. I am real. I don't attend church the same way.
I dont mind dating anyone outside of my religion, even atheists and naturalists.
I am not in business to go "rescuing" anybody.
I am not a smoker, not a doper and not a drinker. I don't gamble. I am real.
I have NO tattoos or piercings but don’t mind my match having them. Don’t let the pictures fool you…I am a softy.
I dont " party". I don’t go to clubs. I enjoy family get togethers.
I am not into cars, or sports, or obsess about woman, but, I still am real.
Don't get me wrong, I can watch a game or a race here and there, but it would not break my heart if I was able to focus my attention on my MATE-for-life, instead. I can do all these things listed above (in the previous paragraph) with my match, if desired.
I love music. I normally listen to a variety of music, as long as it is not screaming at me or encouraging violence to any woman, or law enforcement. It must not encourage any drug usage or any social unrest. New Rap? Not so much.
I would love to go out and have a good time hanging out, maybe have a rare drink.
I love to try new foods.
LET us be friends first.
I am HONEST, LOYAL, and I have never cheated on any of my relationships. I know men say that so much just for a piece of tail, but I mean it. I am a men with character. I am in this to find my forever mate, and not for games or "booty calls". I have my boundaries, and I hope they are close to yours.
I would love to sit and watch a good movie in the arms of my mate. Sitting near a fireplace is very nice.
I can joke about most anything. I love humor. What is the purpose if u can’t laugh and be silly?
I love most any environment; beaches, mountains, the desert, camping out, picnic, snow, desert, eating out, or sitting at home. I absolutely love exploring, or on in the comfort of my home on a good sports channel or video game. I love to drive when traveling, and love spending lots of quiet time with my family.

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