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Date a soulmate from San Francisco, United States. All of the following qualities, wrapped up in one stylish package: fun/ny, adventurous, risk-taker, easy/out going, playful, thoughtful, trustworthy witty...book smart street smart. I enjoy having an interesting, intellectually stimulating conversation almost as much as simply sharing laughter/a smile. I strive for passion in love and life.
"Looking for":
Warm-hearted, understanding, mature, intelligent. Your personality turns heads as much as your beauty when you walk into a room--but that smile adds even more to your presence.
"Not-Looking-for":
I love going out, socializing, etc. but I'm not in search of the four-20 friendly crowd. Nor for that matter, a partner who chooses pharmaceutical solutions to the challenges of life.
As for that "extra connection": it just makes our time together much more fun and enjoyable along the way when we have it, so it is that much easier to overcome those small things in relationships that inevitably come up. So, if we're going to "grow old together", be "partners in crime", etc. let's make sure we really like each other a lot, so it's easy to keep it that way. Mutual admiration really seems to be the magic formula.
I should add that the size of our city makes it fairly convenient to meet-up, especially if you're in the northern-ish end. Either way, I think a quick & easy get-together for coffee or a drink is a much better use of my "free" time. And I do like to meet new people so you can expect me to avoid extended pen-pal relationships on-line where the only exercise I get is eye-strain trying to figure out which one is you in your group photos ;)

Meet men and women from San Francisco, United States. I would describe myself as confident, full of energy ambitious. I have a successful career in high-tech. Which provides me with many perks including opportunity to travel all over the world. Speaking of travelling, I am planning a getaway to South America. It will be fun to Tango in the local bars in Argentina.
I grew up all over the planet but went to college in Midwest and call bay area home for a while now.
I am pretty athletic. So far, I have completed over 15 marathons. On the weekends, I usually end up going for hiking or biking with friends. I thought about taking part in Triathlons. Though, need to get comfortable with open water swim first.
My theme parties are the rage of the town. Preparation for the last one took more than 6 months. Needless to say, folks are already asking me details on the next one. If you have any great ideas, I am all ears.
Oh, I love weekend getaways. To LA, Las Vegas or Tahoe or anywhere else to experience something different.
What am I looking in you? Be the perfect girl. Just kidding. Though, we should connect at physical and intellectual level. Besides, having some common interests, you should not take life too seriously. Enjoy physical intimacy in all the wrong places. And finally, mature enough to handle any situation but young enough to loose yourself in it.

Date someone special from San Francisco, United States. Hard to describe who I'm looking for as it's more about finding the right relationship than about a specific girl. I respond in different ways to different personalities. Hoping you'll bring out my better features. At my best, my intellect will engage you, my deadpan humor will make you laugh unexpectedly, and my thoughtfulness will make your girlfriends annoyed at their significant others. Think a cross between Leonard from "Big Bang Theory" and Jim from "The Office."
Being down to earth and easy-going is a must. Probably best if you know how to save. Having not just a job but a career is helpful, as is patience. Don't expect me to be more outgoing than you.
I like a mix of old and new in my life. I'll probably always enjoy eating yummy food, relaxing over a cocktail or a glass of red wine, or exploring new neighborhoods. But I'm also hoping our interests only partially overlap, as that way I get to broaden my interests. Maybe you'll also have an "I'll try most things once" attitude, and we'll discover new things to do.

Meet single man from San Francisco, United States. Welcome to me! I'm 5'11, a little geeky, and very blond. I'm almost always in a playful mood. I love food and cooking. I have the body language of Zach Braff in Garden State, soo.. yeah... I wouldn't make a great salsa partner. Ha ha ha.
It's been a difficult few years for me because of health issues, but I'm making the most of things and hoping that they'll soon pass. My life goals are always evolving, and I'm finding myself much less city oriented, although that part of me still outshines my rural side.
I'm very un-cool. Ha ha ha. I don't use my facebook account, or tweet, or blog - but I'm not against those things. I'm more of a friendly gardener without the garden. I'm not ambitious, but I make a very good living.
About you: Fit, friendly, unpretentious, and supportive. :-)

Date a man from San Francisco, United States. Hi there,
So, a little bit about me. As a kid, I grew up moving from places to places. If you're familiar with the term "Third Culture Kid", that would be me. I've lived in Japan, different parts of the US, and also Germany. I moved to the bay area in the 90's and I've called this place my home for the last 20 years or so, and I'm thankful for the rich cultural diversity here. I love learning about different cultures and traditions.
I'm a professional musician and a music teacher who values community and creativity. I believe in the healing power of music and I feel blessed to be able to share in it. I love listening to and making all kinds of creative music; except some of the more distastefully commercial music, such as smooth jazz and new age...
I think having lived in different countries has given me a unique worldview. This world is a mess, but I believe in unity amidst diversity. I'm looking for someone who shares a similar insight. I've been told that i'm down to earth, gentle, caring, and a good listener. I can be quiet and calming, but also passionate at the same time. Humility, honesty, integrity, kindness...these things matter the most to me. I try to appreciate the little things in life.
if any of this sparks interest, great! if not, best wishes to you all the same!

Meet people from San Francisco, United States. Hi there - and thanks for taking time to read my profile. In an attempt to summarize myself I thought it useful to provide a snapshot of the books that have taken residence upon my bookshelf. The majority of works are on science, architecture, eastern philosophy, art, and design. My last reads included The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Think and Grow Rich, John Adams, and The World is Flat. Jamie Oliver type cook books also stare at me - insisting I try to replicate the dishes represented in their pages.....
I also love film – getting into a classic Hitchcock with a good glass of vino in hand can easily occupy an evening. I love to walk around town and venture into museums and art galleries. Taking time within parks and forests is also a wonder for me (sometimes I think being in a majestic forest is akin to being in a grand cathedral – it can be quite spiritual experience). I am also a bit of a foodie and really enjoy trying out new restaurants - I love SF! I do like to make my own pasta and would like to think I make a good cappuccino too.
I love music and find it hard to understand how people can live without it. I could easily see a live jazz, indie, blues, classical, opera, pop concert – you name it. But, I will confess, if I hear some funk I can't help but get down.
I really appreciate women with chutzpah, a sense of humor, adventure, spontaneity, and an urge for self exploration. An open mind is a must!
cheers
Mitch

Date a soulmate from California, United States. sincere genuine caring man..friendly outgoing and available...harding working ..responsible and down to earth. i am a devoted follower of honesty...sometimes the truth hurts ..but we all get over it..looking for a fiendship that may flourish into something possibly incredible...i am a fun loving creative individual looking to meet others with common views yet someone whom i can share my intermost thoughts beliefs and dreams with..nothing lasts forever..but each day lost is a tradgic waste. i like everyone have my ups and downs ..ins and outs.. but live to play another day no harm no foul....nothing in life is perfect.....but precious moments can be...people tend to minimize the opportunity of what could potentially happen by allowing non-achieved expectations to take precedence...what we WANT doesn't really matter if we are not getting what we NEED...i firmly believe that one reaps which one sows...and good things do happen to good people....i'm not sure whom i'll find ..nor whom shall find me...i am hoping for none other than to meet an honest,respectful soul that i may by chance come to know and grow to love....without trust, respect and understanding, there is nothing...no truth..nothing to nurture..inabilities to share.....this might all sound like a crock....unless you face all the ill intentions, misguided and misjudged motives that brings us all to where we are today....whether i do find YOU or you find ME..isn't of significance...believe though once that journey is begun and you relish in all of what i have good to offer...i will know within all i am that this is it...that i can share and care, give and trust, allowing every compassionate,considerate, committed quality that i possess to grow within another heart...big order? nah, worth the search...friends before lovers...lovers to no end.....find strength in knowing as bad as it felt...yesterday can no longer hurt us....and all the tomorrows do heal...we don't have to be ultra courageous to accept this...by loving ourselves will we every be able to love for tomorrow...strength and wisdom through love...peace...God's blesssing... Michael

Meet men and women from California, United States. I'm easy-going, open-minded, responsible, honest and have a sense of humor. I appreciate dry humor, slapstick and even sarcasm. I would like to meet someone who shares the same qualities.
I'm looking for someone who likes to try new things and explore new places.

Date someone special from California, United States. I am from pretty humble beginnings but spent a lot of my formative years abroad, so I have a pretty eclectic worldview. I am very well grounded and I lead a rich, active but balanced life. I have been blessed with exceptional genes and I stay in very good shape. On the whole I do quite well for myself. I don’t like to shave on weekends but I like the feel of a good suit, and when I need to chill-out I like to go places where I can wear shoes as little as possible and survive, if I want to, on street food alone. When I work, I am focused and I get the job done exceptionally well. When I am not working I don’t think much about work. I have a thing for mechanical watches, a nice guitar, getting lost in a foreign city and cooking meat on a fire (in no particular order). I like a women who is comfortable with and without makeup. I really dig good music.
I think I covered many of the other things I want to share with a million of my closest friends elsewhere in my profile so we can leave the rest a little open-ended. It is always better that way,
Who I'm looking for? Someone who is mentally and physically together. Someone who takes care of themselves but appreciates being taken care of. I am very happy with my life and you are with yours. We compliment each other, and we connect on many levels but it is our differences that keep it interesting. I am looking for someone who is not racing against the clock, someone who keeps their mind open and is willing to let things take shape in life.
I don't think I will ever be comfortable posting my photos on match.com but I am happy to send a Picasa link to get that out of the way. Let me know...

Meet single man from California, United States. About me. Don't be surprised by an impromtu impersonation of Eddie Murphy at any point in the day. If you enjoy "Arrested Development" then your my kind of girl. I think I'm a bit of a throw back to the men of the 40's, a gentleman who knows how treat a woman, well groomed and impeccably dressed. I definitely enjoy a heated, deep conversation and I'm fascinated by conspiracy theories. I'm very straightforward in my approach to life and love. I've been known to join the band on stage and add my absolutely horrible vocals. I tackle all problems head on and I've been told that I give fantastic dating advice. I think if you approach life in a positive manner than life will in turn reciprocate with positive things. The reverse is also true.
What I'm looking for. I love feminine qualities in a woman but also find a woman whose a bit of a klutz just adorable. If you can work a room in your heels and then trip over yourself when no one is looking, your for me. Would love for you to be passionate about something in your life. Whether it be work, sports, the arts or volunteering. Doesn't really matter just knowing something really motivates you is an attractive quality. Ah last but not least confidence. You don't have to exude it but if you show it off every now and again you'll keep me captivated. Oh and did I mention intelligence. Lets not curl up in bed and recite Shakespeare to each other but if you can have a conversation about politics, world news or something new you learned it sure would make things a whole lot more interesting.
You know the funny thing about writing about all the things you want in a partner is that when you meet the right person you can throw all the things above out the window. How many of us have fallen for someone who didn't match our little list. I know I have. Isn't life great that way. And if you've read down this far then turn around and throw a coin in the Trivoli fountain of life and send me an email.

Date a man from California, United States. From the midwest originally ( Michigan ) and really love to connect with other midwesterners.
That being said, I'm down to earth and like to think I have a good sense of humor. If you like dry and sarcastic, we should talk.
Looking for someone with a great sense of humor and sharp wit so we can laugh together and not take life too seriously.
I love trying new restaurants or bars around the area as well as visiting old favorites.
I also really enjoy traveling to and exploring new cities all over the country, or the world, for that matter. But, I usually don't like to do too much touristy things. I'd rather find the out of the way places where the locals go to try to experience the local culture as much as is possible during a short visit.
I'm really don't like to be around people who enjoy a lot of human-on-human drama in their lives. I don't enjoy pettiness or unnecessary conflict in my life. It's too short for any of that noise.
I like many different types of music, save for country (and western!) and a few others. Always looking for new albums to listen to and would love to meet someone who is similarly open-minded about music.
I grew up in the midwest with a great family, so I like to think I'm very kind, honest, polite and considerate. I think my friends would probably take those qualities for granted and describe me as a witty sarcastic smartass... but in a good way. Yes, a good way.
Other random items:
I used to DJ several years ago. I still have turntables, a ton of of records and still collect some rare items here and there.
I've found that a hobby of mine is reading menus online.
I have good enough cooking skills to follow most recipes without excessive fire or blood.
I've visited 31 states thus far (and DC). Airport layovers don't count.
I love doing research on future travel destinations.
I've worked for several web-based startup companies. It's why I moved to the Bay Area. It's been crazy, but it's definitely kept things interesting!
I know several quotes from key Simpsons episodes and "Fletch".

Meet people from California, United States. Me:
I'm a designer and I really enjoy what I do. As Freud said, Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness.
The exciting bit: I have plenty of loves to balance out work.
Travel, running, cycling, motorcyling, museums, performance art, and eating.
I grew up skateboarding in LA. Sometimes when I'm working late at night, I grab the board and go riding down the parking structure. It really wakes me up. Ever feel the cool night air hit your face, arms, as you carve down a deserted garage. Total quiet except the whir of the wheels. It's so exhilarating.
I love food. Who doesn't? Seems like everyone here is a foodie. I don't think I'm a foodie but I think about food often. I think a foodcation to Portland seems like a great way to spend a long weekend. My favorite is sushi. I'm not a snob about it but my preference is purist, and the place I frequent, if you order a rock-and-roll-dragon-mayonaise anything... the chef will ask you to leave.
I love the arts. If you think watching a powerful performance by the Smuin Ballet is lame or thinks it's silly to be overwhelmed by a Richard Serra structure, you're probably a cretin. Don't get me wrong, some of my closest friends are cretins. But I wouldn't date any of them.
I love music. I dream of being on the beach in Ibiza, letting the music course through my body, running my hand through the cool sand. I enjoyed all those years of raves. When I'm walking my kid around the neighborhood during Halloween with glow sticks, I get flashbacks.While I might go out for a dance, those days of Thursday night evenings at the End Up or 1015 are long gone. Though, music and concerts are still a part of my life. Listening to Gotye, Little Dragon, Santigold. Like the old stuff too. I recently saw the English Beat and Blondie at the Mountain Winery. Debby Harry is still cool! Music permeates all areas. I've spent hours making mashup playlists for friends on Spotify, curating the perfect 80's make out mix. I like to sing. I'm not very good but being Asian, it doesn't take much to get me to bust out Freedom 90 at a Karaoke bar!
You:
Value peace and balance. Harmony is as important as chemistry. Have a strong sense of commitment.. Know how to have fun. Your default state is happy! Have interests. And not the generic, I like to hike, blah... how about you like to trek the Incan trail to Machu Picchu. Must like music, whether it's Top 40's or Fado from Portugal. Tuvanian throat singing or gangsta rap, if you're into, I'd be interested.
You have well-developed taste. You surround yourself with simple but nice things. You're willing to work towards building something awesome. Whether that's a better life or a perfect outfit. My biggest pet peeve? Women who give up and buy ugly shoes. Comfort and style are not mutually exclusive.
Lastly, you might believe that life can be full of complexities but you understand that love is simple.